“3. I have made no provision in this Will for my Son [Dennis] because we do not have a friendly and reasonable Mother and Son relationship and I believe that he has adequate means of his own.” “4. I have made no provision in this Will for my Son [Robert] because he has greatly upset me with his attitude towards my house and I believe that he has adequate means of his own”
“Thank you for seeing Mrs Ashkettle whose daughter is very concerned about her memory loss. She has no medical problems and is not on any medication. She has had a few falls lately. I would be grateful for your advice and necessary treatment. 17. I would be grateful for your help.”
“Poor memory … it has been a gradual & progressive memory deterioration during that period of 2 yrs Unable to name day, date & year No p.h. [past history] of a stroke or TIA [transient ischaemic attack] No fits On no medication Denies history of falling Loses things, cannot find them Physical health v. good Colour [tick - i.e. normal] Occ[asional] visual hallucinations B/P 150/90 Pu 76/min regular CNS [central nervous system] no localising signs [diagnosis] Probable Alzheimer’s T588 offered Daughter not convinced but will think about it & let Val know”
“A.1. My mother lives on her own, she can get out of the bed but I have to dress her every day. 2. She can walk indoors, she can get to the bathroom. She manages stairs very carefully. She does not use any walking aid. 3. She falls over any time if not watched, last fall was 1 week ago. She fell two years [ago] and broke her left elbow. She fell in the garden last time. 4. She can wash her face and hands but she needs help to bath[e]. She can get to the toilet and can manage in the toilet. Some time she forgets where the toilet is? 5. She is not on any medication. 6. Meat has to be cut, then she can feed herself. 7. She does not cook any food. 8. She does not use a wheel chair. 9. She has to be undressed, then she can get into the bed. B.1. She does not go out on her own as she is not safe. She cannot remember things. Her eyesight is poor as well. 2. No fits [this being an answer to a question about “Blackouts, Fits, Comas” etc] C.1. She can turn over and manage to cover herself in bed. 2. She goes to the toilet to empty bladder, then wanders in the house every night early hours of the morning. D.2. No fits [again an answer to a question about “Blackouts, Fits, Comas etc” in the night]. F. August 95 [in answer to the question: How long have these needs existed?]”
“Mentally not orientated. She doe s not remember her birth date, month or year. Pleasant otherwise. No physical disability noted or found. Walks normally. [?] finger count at 3 metres. Her general condition is good … She is mentally confused and needs supervision.”