“74. The option of [Child A and Child B] remaining in the primary care of [the Claimant] I am afraid is untenable. Dr [L] makes it clear that [Child A and Child B] are being left deeply conflicted and with divided loyalties as a result of their experience in the aftermath of their parents’ separation. His view was that their psychological health will continue to be deeply compromised if a significant change in their pattern of care is not put in place. 75. [Dr L] stated, “As long as Mother maintains her position of offering less than wholesome support for [Child A and Child B’s] relationship with their father, as long as [Child A and Child B] remain aware of this, as long as the dominant maternal narrative of father as a psychologically and emotionally flawed parent remains the case, I can identify little by way of potential for work to be undertaken that would improve the relationship between [Child A and Child B] and their father”. 76. He went on: “Any support that sought to work with [Child A and Child B] to address and challenge the maternal narrative would prove stressful and ultimately ineffective as the current arrangements of them living with [the Claimant] for most of the time, only seeing their father for restricted contact, continues the situation where [the Claimant] and her mother can exercise overwhelming influence over [Child A and Child B]. These children have already suffered significant emotional harm in [the Claimant]’s care. They are entitled to have a full and proper relationship with their father without the continuing pressures and distortions of reality resulting from the undue influence of the maternal family”. 77. I agree with the analysis of both [Dr L] and the Guardian. There is no good reason for me to depart from the recommendations made. There is undoubtedly considerable concern as to the emotional harm to the children of being moved from [the Claimant’s] care. They have a strong attachment to her and to maternal grandmother. The professionals all say, and I agree, that they will be extremely upset at moving from her care. 78. However, I agree with the Guardian that it is a balance between the no doubt very considerable short-term distress and the long-term immense emotional impact of remaining with [the Claimant]. The Guardian’s view was that their relationship with their father is the primary consideration, the alternative being that they do not have a relationship with him at all in the long run”
“98. At the same time as recognising the risk of harm to the children by contact becoming unsupervised, I have to take into account and have regard to the harm that they are suffering by not being able to have a more natural relationship with [the Claimant] free from supervision of contact and more extended periods of time… 99… I need to choose the least worst outcome for the children. In my judgment the choice is not between supervised or unsupervised contact, but between supervised contact or no direct contact at all. In my view the harm caused to these children by their contact with [the Claimant] being restricted is far outweighed by the virtual inevitability of further emotional harm being caused to them by [the Claimant] if contact were to be unsupervised… 101. Contact also needs to be reduced. All the professionals involved – Dr [L], the Guardian and [the social worker] - agree on that. I accept their views. I do not find any good reason to depart from them. I accept father’s evidence about the effect of the current contact regime is having upon him. That is a relevant consideration given his position as the children’s primary carer.”