“…he said, ‘Oh you’re the middle child, you must be naughty’. I was totally shocked and laughed out. He kept asking me if I was naughty and to tell him how naughty I was on a scale of one to ten, so I answered six and Dr A said he was a nine point five. Dr A then asked if I needed help or had any questions. I made my excuses and left. I think Dr A could tell that I was uncomfortable and wanted to leave. I was really embarrassed and shocked and didn’t know what to think. It was totally unexpected. I had never been spoken to like this by any doctor.”
“…what didn’t stop were the inappropriate comments about my appearance, sexually suggestive tones to the conversation.” … It was about a year ago this was going on. The initial event was Sept/Oct 2019 and the continued comments was around that time. Comments about my appearance but more about how it was said. “You are looking lovely” but looking you up and down in what I feel was an inappropriate way.”
“Dr Altemimi’s inappropriate comments to me started quite soon after I started the Deputy DGM role in October 2019.” … “I didn’t appreciate Dr Altemimi’s comments. I was new to the role and would have to work closely with him. I didn’t want to make things difficult. If Dr Altemimi made an inappropriate comment, I would laugh it off or make a joke of it…Alongside the comments, I would catch Dr Altemimi giving me seedy looks, smirking, and looking me up and down. It was very obvious to me that Dr Altemimi’s eyes were going up and down my body.”
“in the office or my own” should read “in the office on my own”
“no one will find out”, and “just you and me”
“I didn’t feel that I said everything I should at the last interview. I’m not good at talking, I tend to box things away. I feel I need to give additional information. … Some comments that Dr Altemimi has said that made me feel uncomfortable. On more than one occasion he has whispered in my ear “I want to fuck you” or “I am going to fuck you. … Because it made me feel so uncomfortable I would freeze and then try and laugh it off. Personally, when I feel really uncomfortable in a situation my default response is to try and make a joke to make me feel less uncomfortable. With Dr Altemimi it’s always easier to try and laugh it off or make a joke of the comments as he can become quite difficult to work with when he is challenged.… One I can place because I remember where I was at the time. It was during the first wave of the pandemic last year…. This was around June last year. I was sitting at a desk doing some work, Dr Altemimi and Dr Mathi came in to see me. They were chatting and then another Consultant came in to talk to Dr Mathi and at that point, Dr Altemimi who was sitting in a chair whispered in my ear and said these things. The other times I think were in his office and mine … it was similar saying “I want to fuck you, I’m big and thick it will be great.”
“… [Ms C] was seated at the computer and suddenly Harith went from standing by the doorway and he went and spoke to her very closely and I think he gave her a hug. I didn’t hear what he said. NY: Is that usual for him to give [Ms C] a hug? RM: I hadn’t seen it before. It did feel a bit unusual as to how it happened. NY: Did you hear what he said to her? RM: No. We were talking openly before this happened. What he said close to her I did not hear. He was close to her ear. I couldn’t hear it. NY Did [Ms C] seem surprised or upset by anything? RM: I was a bit embarrassed. Whether [Ms C] was upset I don’t know.”
“not said in front of others”, or “whispered in [Ms C’s] ear so that others could not hear”
‘After that Dr Altemimi kept saying “shall we go for a drink”. I asked who with – did he mean like last time? “No come and let’s go for a drink”. I kept saying no you’re married and I am not interested…That became quite persistent. It would normally happen at the end of our informal meetings. “Come for a drink with me. No one will find out.” You never know how to handle it. Laugh it off or make a joke. The first few times it was saying no in a jokey way. It got to a point where I had to say I’m not interested and it’s not going to happen. After that the persistence did stop but what didn’t stop were the inappropriate comments about my appearance, sexually suggestive tones to the conversation. Some comments that Dr Altemimi has said that made me feel uncomfortable. On more than one occasion he has whispered in my ear “I want to fuck you” or “I am going to fuck you.” Because it made me feel so uncomfortable I would freeze and then try and laugh it off. Personally, when I feel really uncomfortable in a situation my default response is to try and make a joke to make me feel less uncomfortable. With Dr Altemimi it’s always easier to try and laugh it off or make a joke of the comments as he can become quite difficult to work with when he is challenged. Q. When he whispered in your ear, how close was he? Could you feel his breath? A. Yes he was so close I could feel his breath. When I was in the COVID room I tried to turn my head away but he kept coming closer to whisper in my ear.’