“almost all sex with (the intervener) involved him displaying dominance, control and emotional detachment or aggression … occasionally sex would begin intimately but then (the intervener’s) demeanour would suddenly change and he would become detached and domineering, often pinning me by my throat … as the relationship progressed I felt less and less like I had the right to say no to his sexual demands. He impressed upon me verbally that as his Muslim wife I should fulfil his sexual needs unquestionably. I felt it was not acceptable to him for me to refuse to be intimate for any reason and as time went on, due to reactions I encountered in him, I became increasingly fearful about saying no to him because of the potential consequences of doing so”
“I have taken it that she means that she was fearful that he would leave her if she did not go along with his demands”
“we both know you are not strong enough to get rid of me”. (The claimant)acknowledges thatalthough she would tell him to go, often she would end up begging him to stay. In her assessment Miss Levitt describes how: “I have treated her as a vulnerable young woman who was (arguably) emotionally manipulated into entering into, and then remaining in, a relationship about which she had considerable reservations at the time and, it would appear she now regrets. Much of what she describes fits squarely within the Government definition of domestic violence, and would no doubt resonate with other victims. I have in mind particularly her hope and expectation that he would change.”
“She says that she did not want to do that because she was revising for her exams. Once it became clear that they were both in the (university) building, he told her he was in the gym in the basement. She thought that his texts seemed strange and she was worried about him as he was prone to bouts of depression, so she went down to the gym. There she found him sitting in the dark. She went and sat next to him, put her arm around him and asked him if he was all right, but he began to make aggressive sexual advances to her. She told the police that “in one sense that wouldn’t have been a problem, because we were together”, but she did not like how aggressive he was being. He kissed her very roughly, pulled open her belt and trousers and grabbed at her face and hair. At one point he pushed her onto the floor and had hold of her by her hair. He opened her trousers, pulled her head down by her hair and demanded that she perform oral sex on him but she refused. He then began to masturbate in front of her (which she described as being a form of assault in and of itself). It appears that at some point, she asked him to stop and he would then do so and push her away, telling her to leave, but she did not do so because she was worried about him. At some other point “he had her by the throat”, not hard enough to hurt her, but enough to scare her”
“turned her around over the basin and pulled her pyjamas down, penetrating her vagina with his penis”
“The night you came and said you were going to do it because I was your woman and you would do what you wanted with me and left me feeling very lost and very alone not to mention completely powerless and enslaved. I honestly felt that I was going to leave you. The fact that you had been so caring when you said to come off the pill and had assured me you would use condoms and later assured me you would use azi but then switched in a moment left me feeling really betrayed. I trusted you to keep your word and that night I just felt like something snapped in me.”
“A person (A) commits an offence if – (a) he intentionally penetrates the vagina … of another person with his penis, (b) (B) does not consent to the penetration, and (c) (A) does not reasonably believe that (B) consents”
“The question of consent in the present case is to be determined by reference to s.74. The allegation is clear and covers the alternative; it is not an allegation that the condom came off accidentally or was damaged accidentally. It would plainly be open to a jury to hold that, if (the complainant) had made clear that she would only consent to sexual intercourse if Mr Assange used a condom, then there would be no consent if, without her consent, he did not use a condom, or removed or tore the condom without her consent. His conduct in having sexual intercourse without a condom in circumstances where she had made clear she would only have sexual intercourse if he used a condom would therefore amount to an offence under theSexual Offences Act 2003 , whatever the position may have been prior to that Act.”