"If there is no will, then (if the deceased was married) the deceased's spouse is the person next entitled to determine these matters, as the person first entitled to a grant of administration of the deceased's estate, at least until it is clear that he or she is incapable of acting or does not intend to apply for such a grant. Subject to that, the other persons able to apply for a grant should be treated as the persons to determine mode and place of disposal."
"I do not think I am being asked to give directions as to the administration of an estate. I am being asked to decide between the conflicting arguments of equally entitled parents as to the way in which Mark's ashes should be disposed of and I do that on the usual basis that this court is well used to exercising discretion in disputes between trustees and adjudicating on the proper course to follow when no agreement can be reached by the parties concerned. "