“The House of Lords Children and Families Act 2014 Committee which reported in December 2022 concluded that, “Contact, where safe, appropriate and properly managed, can be valuable for an adoptive child, their new family and their birth family, including siblings and other relatives. However, contact orders and support can vary, and the current system of letterbox contact is outdated. The failure to modernise contact threatens to undermine the adoption system.” (Emphasis added by the PLWG)
“During the lead up to the offence, (the father) also felt as though his partner was belittling him, particularly regarding his looks and sexual performance. Meanwhile he had been using the internet to download software for ‘firesticks’, as well as being involved in group chats on Kik. Whilst speaking to the victim (the father) described feeling listened to and less alone, which led to him continuing to speak to her after finding out she was (a teenager). It is my formulation that (the father) did so due to his feelings of rejection and abandonment being triggered within his relationship, as well as feeling lonely, this meant that when feeling wanted by the victim he was motivated to continue speaking to her, overlooking the age. This can also be seen within his first relationship and the concerns about the age difference with (the mother). Additionally, (the father) created a fake profile, posing as a (teenaged) boy when speaking to the victim. This is likely to have been a method to facilitate the offence, as well as (the father’s) strong desire to be accepted by others. With his low self-worth at the time, it is my suggestion that (the father) pretended to be someone else in order to avoid judgment and rejection.”