“the mother is motivated for her children to return to her care and [I] consider that in view of the fact that she is mentally well and that her parenting of her children is of a good enough standard when she is mentally well, that a plan should be put in place for the children to return to her care, but that this should take place on a gradual basis to ensure that it will be sustained”
“M was still eager to come off of depot treatment; she was reminded that depot was required for stability of mental state – as EIP want to avoid destabilisation and risk of jeopardising recovery/progress. I also noted past rates of relapse, as well as her ongoing issues remaining adherent to oral treatment. I reassured her that this formed the rationale for considering switch to alternative depot which she could tolerate better. I explained that there was a risk with further medication changes in causing instability, which would not be ideal as she continues to engage the courts regarding her children and looks to secure employment. M reiterated her disagreement that there was a possibility of relapse in the event of abrupt discontinuation of antipsychotic treatment, asking about coming off medication as soon as possible. I reminded her that her hospital admission had been prolonged and eventful, and that there was evidence she struggled with mental illness for a couple of years prior to that admission. I repeated that treatment stability will serve her well as she pursues return to employment and regaining custody of her children, as well as added stability to tolerate unexpected stressors – as some of the stressors which existed prior to her admission were ongoing.”
“We are all frail human beings, with our fair share of unattractive character traits, which sometimes manifest themselves in bad behaviours which may be copied by our children. But the State does not and cannot take away the children of all the people who commit crimes, who abuse alcohol or drugs, suffer from physical or mental illnesses or disabilities, or who espouse anti-social political or religious beliefs.”
"The courts are not in the business of providing children with perfect homes. If we took into care and placed for adoption every child whose parents had had a domestic spat and every child whose parents on occasion had drunk too much then the care system would be overwhelmed and there would not be enough adoptive parents. So we have to have a degree of realism about prospective carers who come before the courts."