"Thus in my judgment where a relationship moves seamlessly from cohabitation to marriage without any major alteration in the way the couple live, it is unreal and artificial to treat the periods differently."
"The mere fact that parties begin to spend time in each other's homes does not of itself, it sems to me, equate to marriage. In situations such as this, the court must look to an accumulation of markers of marriage which eventually will take the relationship over the threshold into a quasi-marital relationship." 42. In McCartney v Mills McCartney[2008] EWHC 401 at para 55, Bennett J said: "
"I am prepared to accept that the wife and the husband from 1999 to the date of their marriage spent many, many nights together, holidayed together and became engaged. They had a very close relationship. But that does not, in my judgment, in the circumstances of this case, equate with a settled, committed relationship moving seamlessly into marriage." 43. In E v L[2021] EWFC 60 , a case which W submits is similar to this one, Mostyn J added 18 months of cohabitation to the length of the marriage, saying: "
“I have screwed it up completely”