“Foster placements, long or short term, do not provide legal security. They can and often do come to an end. Children in long term care may find themselves moved from one home to another, sometimes for seemingly inexplicable reasons. Long term foster parents are not expected to be fully committed to a child in the same way as adoptive parents. Most importantly of all, a long term foster child does not have the same and enduring sense of belonging within a family as does a child who has been adopted. There is no way in which a long term foster child can count on the permanency, particularity and enduring quality of their placement as a child who has been adopted. The advantages of a placement order are obvious. Prospective adopters are required to submit themselves to a rigorous and very thorough assessment process over many months. Those who satisfy the selection criteria are ordinarily of the highest calibre. They may be confidently expected to provide extremely good parenting to any child who is matched with it in all areas of their development.”
“The court will not, except in the most exceptional case, impose terms or conditions as to access to members of the child's natural family to which the adopting parents do not agree. To do so will be to create a potentially frictional situation which will be hardly likely to safeguard or promote the wealth of the child. When no agreement is forthcoming, the court will, with very rare exceptions, have to choose between the making of an adoption order without terms and conditions as to access, or to refuse to make such an order and seek the safeguard contact through some other machinery. To do otherwise will be merely inviting future and almost immediate litigation.”
“Prior to the introduction of theAdoption and Children Act 2002 section 51A , the position in law was that the imposition on prospective adopters of orders for contact with which they are not in agreement is extremely, and remains extremely, unusual. Although section 51A has introduced a bespoke statutory regime for the regulation of post-adoption contact following placement for adoption by an adoption agency, there is nothing to be found in the wording of section 51A or in section 51B which indicates any variation in the approach to be taken to the imposition of an order for contact upon adopters who are unwilling to accept it.”