“The Local Authority has been involved with the family since 2005 and has used various procedures to try to safeguard the children. The procedures have included child protection plans, child in need plans, and despite these actions there have continued to be referrals to the authority from concerned professionals and those concerns have escalated…there were concerns about the children being locked in their bedrooms…about physical abuse…the Local Authority’s concerns that [the father] appeared to dominate [the mother] are evident although she sought to protect [the father] from the allegations against him…there were further allegations the children made that the parents removed the handles to their bedroom at night so they were effectively locked in and could not get to the bathroom…the elder...children described [being] made to stand facing a wall for long periods of time as punishment…if the girls turned around they were hit and kicked….the Social Worker…found that the home smelled strongly of urine…[‘N’] made allegations…that [the father] also assaulted their mother…[the parents] denied there were any problems in the home. The mother was threatening towards the Social Worker…the police took the children into police protection…[‘F’] said that [the father] had hit [‘S’] on the back of her head and her face and hit the wall.”
“Both parents acknowledge difficulties to some extent in their capacity to provide appropriate boundaries and supervision around the children…the mother…recognised that she would like to learn to deal more effectively with their challenging behaviour. [The father] denied any allegations against him of physically chastising the children or physically abusing them.”
“Her evidence gives rise to particular concern with regard to the inconsistency of a fundamental kind that arises…she said for example that [the father] has broken her wrist when he assaulted her…there was evidence to confirm that she had been subject to an assault...however…[she] changed her evidence…fundamentally. She said she felt under enormous pressure ‘to say what they clearly wanted me to say’...I form the view that she has been the subject of a controlling relationship with [the father]…I form the view that in giving her evidence she was fragile and vulnerable in herself…and torn between her feelings of loyalty to the children…and her conflicted feelings to [the father]…her evidence should be regarded with particular caution although in my judgment there is good reason to believe that when she said she was trapped…there was much truth in her expression of that view.”
“He maintained that he had never hurt, slapped or sworn at the children. While he accepted that there had been heated arguments with the mother, that there had been pushing by the mother, it was not in the presence of the children…he maintained his belief that the Local Authority have their own agenda and the Social Workers have simply misconstrued his explanations and marginalised him….[the father] presented in evidence as confident, even cocksure in his assertions and dismissal of the Local Authority’s concerns. It did not seem to me that he was able to provide any satisfactory explanation for any of the Local Authority’s concerns and at times presented himself as appearing perhaps as the victim of misunderstanding or poor thinking. The evidence does, as I see it, point to a very real imbalance in the relationship that he has with [the mother] …my conclusion is…that [the father] is a man who seeks to control the members of his family and particularly [the mother]. I gained the impression that the truth for [the father] is what he wants it to be and I was far from satisfied that he was being full and frank with his answers. There may even be an element of denial about himself…I found his self-justification unconvincing and his manner while plausible devoid of any real understanding of the potential causes of his children’s behaviour and distress. I formed the impression that [the father] was the one in the family and in his relationship with the mother who called the shots, who took the decisions and who would not brook disagreement easily…[the father] is a man who in my judgment held the mother in fear not least because at times he gave vent to his feelings of anger or annoyance by a violent reaction…I regard his evidence also…to be treated with real caution and where his evidence differs from [the mother’s]…I would have preferred her original evidence…I have reviewed all the evidence and set down the summaries of the particular aspects of the evidence in short form. I have undertaken what the President Dame Butler-Sloss described as the overview of the totality of the evidence in order to come to the conclusion whether the Local Authority’s case has been made out the required standard of proof.”
“I am aware that potentially there is this disadvantage for him.”
“Detectives attended the address today…and were concerned with the state of the address. The house was in a general state of disarray, the children were in dirty clothes and there was animal faeces and urine on the floor. One of the children swore at an officer and ran out into the road through the open front door and out into the road where he was stopped by the officer who was also forced to go into the road to stop him but the parent made no attempt to stop the child…Intervention officers attended the address and saw the same living conditions as listed above….When I went inside the address, the house was very dirty, especially the toilet and the kitchen, there was clutter everywhere, bedding was dirty as were the children and their clothes were filthy. There was old food present and one child was eating off the floor. There were several animals present including at least 3 dogs and a bird inside the address and faeces and urine present…The children were friendly but I would consider over-familiar with the police officers and very inquisitive towards our equipment and apart from a few tears did not object to being taken from the address. The mother was upset, understandably but clearly cannot cope with the children or keeping a well-managed home and I am concerned for her mental state.”
“He attacked me countless times, even when pregnant with his kids.”
“He [HHJ Wright] said that, but it wasn’t’ true…I accept his judgment. I accept he made the findings, but it would be a lie if I said in court I’d done something I had not.”
“…Daddy hurts Mummy…She said that once Daddy had Mummy up against the wall by her throat and Mummy was crying. She said that he then hit her on the hand and then in the face, I asked if she had seen this happen and she said yes and [‘T’ and ‘Q’]. She said that another time Mummy and Daddy were fighting, and Daddy said that he would chop Mummy’s hand off and went to get his sword but then changed this to a kitchen knife and pretended to cut her Mum’s hand off. She then went onto tell me that…Daddy would hurt Mummy because she had all the dogs. Daddy once hurt Mummy when they were driving. Her and [‘U’] were in the back. Daddy kicked Mummy out of the car and smashed her phone. [‘D’] got out of the car and tried to get her Mum’s phone and told Daddy off for hurting her, then her Mummy was running after the car. [‘U’] jumped out of the window while it was moving. She said another time Daddy shut her and [‘T’] out of the house when it was snowing. She was very cold.”
“It does not appear that [‘U’] is any closer to being reengaged in his education.”
“it would cause more emotional harm to separate the three children as a sibling group. Another change of placement needs to be sooner rather than later.”
“that won’t commence if there is an adoption search. For children to engage in a therapeutic journey, they need a level of stability in other areas of their life for that to be successful.”
“…it is quite clear that the test for severing the relationship between parent and child is very strict: only in exceptional circumstances and where motivated by overriding requirements pertaining to the child's welfare, in short, where nothing else will do.”