‘the prospective adopters are not formally approved as adopters by [the original Local Authority]. They are approved as foster carers under theFostering Regulations 2011 by an independent fostering agency. I understand that they have previously been approved as adopters in relation to their other two children and were approved by their Local Authority. [The original Local Authority] has not seen or had access to the previous adoption assessments.’
‘Upon the mother being present at court for some of the oral evidence but leaving court before the conclusion of the case. Upon the father accepting that the court should make a care order on the basis of the threshold as agreed and attached to this order but opposing the making of a placement order for adoption. Upon the mother through the Official Solicitor, neither agreeing nor opposing the making of both care and placement orders. And upon the court having read the bundle and heard oral evidence of the witnesses, accepting that a placement order should be made and dispensing with the consent of the father to such order. And upon the local authority agreeing to assist the mother with her letterbox contact due to her learning needs.’
‘direct contact with C’s parents has now stopped. Parents were offered a goodbye visit but chose not to attend and have disengaged with the team. Letterbox contact twice yearly will be set up once adopters have been identified.’
‘Need: To develop their own identity…Action: Letter box contact to be set up. Explanation: C has the right to information about her background and to know who her parents are. She will need to know that they attempted to care for her and met her regularly until she was placed on a permanent basis.’
‘no direct contact proposed. x2 year letterbox with birth parents…Letterbox contact is proposed with C’s …adopted siblings, there is no indicating the frequency of this’
‘The guardian has noted with some concern that despite the fact that the final care plan with the local authority had confirmed the local authority’s proposed plan for post adoption contact was twice yearly indirect contact, this was not a subject that was correctly discussed with the prospective adopters prior to them being approved as the prospective adopters for C. The guardian is also concerned that paragraph 4.6 of a statement, the social worker states ‘in a linking meeting [i.e. the meeting that is documented at F1], minutes show the prospective adopters were in agreement with post adoption contact.’
‘Identity - your birth family are an important part of your identity. As you were only little, you won't know who everyone is in your birth family, but as you get older this is something that will be really important. If you are adopted, you will have a life story book and later life letter which will help you understand who is your birth family, and the decisions made by the judge. [The prospective adopters] keeping a record of all the important things that happen whilst you are living with them including taking photographs which will be very important for your life story book.’
‘C is supported to maintain a positive sense of family and identity. [The prospective adopters] have stated that they only wish to exchange mailbox letters every 12 months; social worker to explore and discuss this further with them.’
‘their view was clear that they would complete one letter to birth parents post an adoption order being made but would not continue to provide updates.’
‘It is clear from minutes of the LAC review that prompted the visit, that there must have been earlier discussions, as the applicant's changing position about the known plan for letterbox contact is recorded in various minutes. This appears to be a case either of incomplete disclosure or inadequate record keeping, only apparent since service of the LAC minutes some three months late, in September 2022.’
‘We heard about your birth family and the prospective adopters will send a settling in letter to your birth parents when the judge makes the decision that the prospective adopters should become your adoptive parents. They have agreed with your social worker they will not send any further letters to your birth mum and dad. The social worker will tell the judge why this decision has been made.’
‘the prospective adopters do not agree to promoting contact between the siblings through indirect letterbox. Their view is that they do not see the relevance or benefit for C of once a year writing a letter. They agree that there may come a time when C and her siblings want to trace each other and would be supportive of considering this based on the best interest of C and her wishes and views…The female applicant is fixed on this view about letterbox contact and no further discussion around this has changed her position or supported her to see that this could be important for C’s life story…. [A147] I do not agree with these views and feel indirect letterbox contact can play an important role in helping adopted children understand their history and in helping them feeling secure with their identity. For me, the overriding priority is C’s permanence and this I feel is best provided for in the care of the prospective adopters. So, whilst I do not agree with their view on indirect contact, I accept that this is something they will not do, and it is my opinion that this should not impact on C being adopted by them.’
‘At C46-48 the Head of Service, Permanence has set out the status of C’s placement with the prospective adopters, and the chronology leading to the decision made as to the suitability of the prospective adopters. C lives with the prospective adopters under a fostering arrangement. The prospective adopters made a private application.’
‘We heard about your birth family and the prospective adopters will send a settling in letter to your birth parents when the judge makes the decision they should become your adoptive parents. They have told your social worker that they will not send any further letters to your birth mum and dad. The social worker will tell the judge why this decision has been made.’
‘The prospective adopters agreed to send birth parents a settling in letter when the adoption is granted. They have not agreed to any annual letterbox contact to birth family.’
‘We heard about your birth family and your prospective adoptive parents have sent your birth parents a photograph of you as directed by the court. There are lots of conversations happening about what any future indirect contact (letterbox contact) would look like with your birth parents, so this is being discussed within the court arena and a decision will be made in what the judge thinks is in your best interests.’
‘I agree with the guardian that ‘the issue around indirect contact should have been discussed with the prospective adopters when they first expressed an interest in caring for C and in line with the Care Plan at that time.’
‘In my first statement, I state that the prospective adopters ‘told me that they have always held the same views around direct [sic] contact and cannot remember this being discussed directly with them.’
‘an adoption order may not be made unless the court is satisfied that sufficient opportunities to see the child with the applicant or, in the case of an application by a couple, both of them together in the home environment have been given: a) where the child was placed for adoption with the applicant or applicants by an adoption agency, to that agency, b) in any other case, to the local authority within whose area of the home is.’
‘The mother has expressed the following wishes and feelings: a) she does not seek to oppose C being adopted; b) she would like to have indirect contact by way of letter and/ photograph once a year. The mother is not seeking to send a response to any such letter.’
‘I'm not going to feel intimidated into giving up my daughter for adoption. My love [is] as a father to my daughter. I cannot agree to you wanting to adopt my daughter. I have lost all my family due to health reasons. If my daughter was to be adopted without any photos or drawings, it would feel like I've lost all my family. I'm not asking for much. We are all here, father, mother, and professionals. We all have C’s best wishes and interests for her to do well. …This has been very difficult to write. I can't emphasise my feelings on behalf of C more than I have expressed. I would like to make it clear, I have been through most of this procedure with no legal advice or a solicitor. I have been very cooperative all through this process. Thank you for your patience through this difficult time.’
‘From what I understand of this, the prospective adopters are making decisions that have not been authorised by the courts. As prospective adopters, until a decision has been made and finalised by a court, then they can act on that. Letterbox contact should have been set up ages ago when the mother left the placement. C should have the right to know who her parents are at an age when she can understand, it is important for her identity. C should be entitled to have photographs of us and vice versa. I understand the prospective adopters have other children under adoption but what has happened in their circumstances should not be influenced in your decision making today, Mr Wildblood. The prospective adopters had previously agreed to provide photographs of C, so I cannot see it being a problem in the future. I'm emotionally drained and on the edge of breaking down. I have done all my best I possibly can for my daughter, all I ask for is in direct contact to see my daughter grow up.’
‘Obviously, I love C and only want what is in her best interests. At the end of the care proceedings, the local authority care plan was that C should be placed for adoption but with a proposal that there should be indirect letterbox contact twice a year. It is not my fault, nor the fault of C’s mother, that the local authority did not speak to the prospective adopters about the recommendation for letterbox contact. This was an unfortunate error on the part of the local authority, for which they appear not to be able to give any explanation. I fully understand that the prospective adopters have other children and that there is no indirect or letterbox contact between those other children and their natural parents. Whilst understanding this, my concern is with C and not with the other children that the prospective adopters have …I have to make it clear to the court that I would support the adoption going ahead on just one condition. I appreciate that indirect contact by way of letters between myself and C could possibly disrupt the placement. I have been made aware by the guardian that indirect contact and indeed sometimes direct contact is quite normal these days with adoptions. However, I am not even pressing for indirect contact by way of letters because, as I say, this might disrupt the placement. The only condition that I am asking for is that I should be sent photographs once a year by the prospective adopters. I am not asking for any letters to be sent backwards or forwards. I am not asking for me to be able to send photographs of myself to C. I simply ask that one photograph is provided to me once a year and I feel this is not much to ask for. I cannot see how this could possibly disrupt C’s placement as C would not even know that a photograph was being sent to me. I fail to see why the prospective adopters would not agree to such a proposal and on this basis, I would be happy to consent to the adoption proceedings. If the prospective adopters cannot agree to this and the court does not feel that such an order should be made, then my position would be that I oppose the adoption and would ask that C remain with the prospective adopters, but as foster parents and I would then ask for ongoing direct contact with C once or twice a year. I appreciate that this position could be seen as being at odds with what I say above about not wanting to disrupt C’s placement but if the prospective adopters and the court do not feel that my request for one photograph a year is reasonable, then this would be my stance. In recent times I've been trying to put some routine into my life and I have been doing voluntary work at a church…’
‘I feel…I have nothing left to lose now. I’ve been representing myself throughout this court case. I am C’s father that has tried to do the best for his daughter from day one. …I am requesting to be re-assessed to have regular contact with C. I DO NOT agree with the application for C to be adopted or the order. But I would agree to a special guardianship order for [the prospective adopters] to take care of C until she reaches 18. I do understand that C would have the Local Authority in her life. But at least she wouldn’t be lied to for the rest of her life...I would please…emphasise my frustrations throughout this procedure. I have found it difficult and represented myself in the politest and most well-mannered way that I possibly can.’
‘The local authority is in agreement with the position statement of the children’s guardian and believes C’s interests are best served by her remaining where she is and for her adopters’ wishes to be adhered to with respect to indirect contact. C is settled and thriving with her current carers and the priority for her must be to have legal permanence and that her plan should remain one of adoption and for her current carers to be her adopters.’
‘HHJ Wildblood suggested a possible way forward to the issues around indirect contact post adoption that the Local Authority should hold a file in C’s name. The birth parents would send a letter and a photograph once every six months to this file and this would be held for C to access if and when she is asking about her life story and wanting to know more information about her birth family.’
‘although the child's interests in an adoption case are paramount, the court must never lose sight of the fact that those interests include being brought up by the natural family, ideally by the natural parents, or at least one of them, unless the overriding requirements of the child's welfare make that not possible.’
‘The court cannot dispense with the consent of any parent…of a child…to the making of an adoption order in respect of the child unless the court is satisfied that…b) the welfare of the child requires the consent to be dispensed with.’
‘Section 52(1)(b) of the 2002 Act provides… that the consent of a parent…can be dispensed with only if the welfare of the child "requires" this. "Require" here has the Strasbourg meaning of necessary, "the connotation of the imperative, what is demanded rather than what is merely optional or reasonable or desirable": Re P (Placement Orders: Parental Consent)[2008] EWCA Civ 535 . This is a stringent and demanding test.’
‘Section 52(1) is concerned with adoption – the making of either a placement order or an adoption order – and what therefore has to be shown is that the child's welfare 'requires' adoption as opposed to something short of adoption. A child's circumstances may 'require' statutory intervention, perhaps may even 'require' the indefinite or long-term removal of the child from the family and his or her placement with strangers, but that is not to say that the same circumstances will necessarily 'require' that the child be adopted. They may or they may not. The question, at the end of the day, is whether what is 'required' is adoption.’
‘In deciding whether to grant leave under subsection (4)(c), the court must consider— (a) any risk there might be of the proposed application disrupting the child's life to such an extent that he or she would be harmed by it (within the meaning of the 1989 Act), (b) the applicant's connection with the child, and (c) any representations made to the court by— i) the child, or ii) a person who has applied for the adoption order or in whose favour the adoption order is or has been made.’
‘The starting point for any consideration of this issue must be the settled position in law had been reached by the decision in Re R, which was confirmed by this court in the Oxfordshire case and in Re T. The judgment in Re R was, itself, on all fours, so far as imposing contact on unwilling adopters, with the position described by Lord Ackner in Re C. As stated by Wall LJ in Re R, prior to the introduction of ACA 2002, s 51A, the position in law was, therefore, that "the imposition on prospective adopters of orders for contact with which they are not in agreement is extremely, and remains extremely, unusual." Although s 51A has introduced a bespoke statutory regime for the regulation of post-adoption contact following placement for adoption by an adoption agency, there is nothing to be found in the wording of s 51A or of s 51B which indicates any variation in the approach to be taken to the imposition of an order for contact upon adopters who are unwilling to accept it. Indeed, …both the Explanatory Note and the fact that Parliament only afforded the court power to make orders of its own motion if such orders are to prohibit contact, Parliament's intention in enacting s 51A was aimed at enhancing the position of adopters rather than the contrary.’