“It is quite clear that the test for severing the relationship between parent and child is very strict: only in exceptional circumstances and where motivated by overriding requirements pertaining to the child's welfare, in short, where nothing else will do.”
“I don’t understand it, why would my mental health have erupted now, why was it not picked up earlier, did I have a mental health worker before when the kid’s dad died? The kids are paying for my mental health.”
“The mother’s insight appears to fluctuate, that it is difficult for mother to answer questions regarding her diagnosis, there is contradictory statements about whether she agrees or not with the diagnosis. In the past, during visits, she said she rejects the diagnosis and yet today she has accepted it. It does worry me that the mother may not take medication if not on a CTO -compulsory treatment order.”
“M with an open hand smacked B’s bottom four times in succession, quickly.”
“If she remains in the mother’s care, she will require a comprehensive approach to parenting rehabilitation which should include interventions that directly address her specific parenting needs and deficits to be compliant with her psychiatric treatment and close liaison with other services, such a gynaecology, paediatrics, and child psychiatry. Mother will need, and benefit from, parenting coaching and skills training to improve her knowledge of specific parenting behaviours.”
“Staff ordinarily take a step back to see what learning has been retained and practiced consistently, usually. Due to the complexities of mother’s parenting competencies as sole carer, in this case, measure was specifically taken to identify what B’s lived experience of her needs being met was revealed when staff were not supporting, coaching or problem-solving for mother. The five-day planned period was ended early due to the impact on B’s care needs and them not being responded to adequately. For example,”, she explains in the report, “B remained in the same nappy for 14-hours, she had consumed 24 ounces of the recommended 35 ounces of milk in the 24-hour period. B's sterilizer water had not been changed and the guidance is for it to be changed daily. B was awake in the morning for over two hours before she is attended to for a bottle or a nappy change. B was smacked on her bottom with an open hand when the mother became irritated with her as she was resistant to lowering her legs to be tucked into her cot. B did not get her clothes changed or receive a top and tail bath for the entire period.”
“The conclusion of the assessment is that in our opinion, the mother does not have the capacity to care independently and safely for B in the community and such an arrangement will leave B at significant risk of neglect and possible physical harm. Under an arrangement of independent care, and even with the provision of professional support, the mother is liable in my opinion to become quickly overwhelmed by the cognitive, practical, and emotional demands of enduring sole care for her daughter and this will place B at risk of neglect and/or physical harm and affect the mother’s own emotional difficulties and stability over the longer term.”
“In our opinion without the presence of staff to intervene on B’s behalf to ensure her needs are met, she would be at risk of neglect of her physical, emotional and developmental needs as well as at risk of physical harm.”