“It is clear that the pragmatic approach I had hoped would progress this matter for both parties will no longer work…I can see no alternative but to list a further hearing (t/e 1 day) at which the court would consider…(a) (the wife’s) application for permission to appeal…(b) whether the proceedings should be stayed…(c) general case management directions…At some point (the husband’s) variation application, which was issued a long time ago, must be heard.”