‘The Court should give effect to an ante or post-nuptial agreement that was freely entered into by each party with a full appreciation of its implications unless in the circumstances prevailing it would not be fair to hold the parties to their agreement. If an ante or post-nuptial agreement was to carry full weight, both parties must enter into it of their own free will, without undue influence or pressure, informed of its implications. It was not necessary to think in formal terms; it was sufficient to ask whether there was any material lack of disclosure, information or advice. What was important was that each party should have all the information material to his or her decision, and that each party should intend that the agreement should govern the financial consequences of the marriage coming to an end. Although it might not, previously, have been right to infer from the fact of the conclusion of the agreement that the parties intended it to have effect, in future it would be natural to infer that parties who entered into an ante-nuptial agreement to which English law was likely to be applied intended that effect should be given to it. In relation to the circumstances attending the making of the agreement the first question would be whether the standard vitiating factors, duress, fraud or misrepresentation were present: those factors would negate any effect the agreement might otherwise have. Unconscionable conduct, such as undue pressure falling short of duress, would also be likely to eliminate the weight to be attached to the agreement, while other unworthy conduct, such as exploitation of a dominant position to secure an unfair advantage, would reduce or eliminate it. The court might take into account a party’s emotional state, and what pressures he or she was under to agree, but not in isolation from what would have happened without such pressures. The circumstances of the parties at the time of the agreement would be relevant. An important factor might be whether the marriage would have gone ahead without an agreement, or without the terms agreed. If the terms of the agreement were unfair from the start, that would reduce its weight, although that question would be subsumed in practice in the question of whether the agreement operated unfairly having regard to the circumstances prevailing at the time of the breakdown of the marriage. …… The question of fairness would depend upon the facts of the particular case, but some general guidance could be given: a nuptial agreement could not be allowed to prejudice the reasonable requirements of any children of the family; the court should accord respect to the decision of a married couple as to the manner in which their financial affairs should be regulated, particularly where the parties’ agreement addressed existing circumstances, not merely the contingencies of an uncertain future; the distinction between matrimonial and non-matrimonial property was particularly significant where the parties made express agreement as to the disposal of such property in the event of the termination of the marriage, and there was nothing inherently unfair in such an agreement; the longer the marriage had lasted, the more likely it was that the couple’s circumstances would have changed over time in ways or to an extent that either could not be or simply was not envisaged, giving more scope for what had happened over the years to make it unfair to hold them to the agreement. Of the three strands identified in Miller v Miller; McFarlane v McFarlane [2006] UKHL, 24, needs and compensation were the strands that could most readily render it unfair to hold the parties to an ante-nuptial agreement, but where these considerations did not apply, and each party was in a position to meet his or her needs, fairness might well not require a departure from their agreement as to the regulation of their financial affairs in the circumstances that had come to pass. Thus it was in relation to the third strand, sharing, that the court would be most likely to make an order in the terms of the nuptial settlement in place of the order that it would otherwise have made.’
‘Men and women of full age, education and understanding, acting with competent advice available to them, must be assumed to know and appreciate what they are doing …. The existence of a freely negotiated bargain entered at the instance of one of the parties and affording to him or her everything for which he or she has stipulated must be a most important element of conduct which cannot lightly be ignored’ ‘the court must, I think, start from the position that a solemn and freely negotiated bargain by which a party defines her own requirements ought to be adhered to unless some clear and compelling reason, such, for instance, as a drastic change of circumstances, is shown to the contrary.’
‘(i) was the husband’s disclosure full and frank? (ii) if not: a) Was the misrepresentation intentional? If so, the burden is on him to prove, on the balance of probabilities, that proper disclosure would not have led to a different order; or b) Was the misrepresentation innocent? If so, the burden is on the wife to prove that proper disclosure would have led to a different order.’
‘You need to see if you can get an hour with bank please rather than waiting another 2 weeks I have a consultation tomorrow mid morning and I should know what I need to do from that point. Like I said recently I cannot do this anymore. A moment longer than I have to, I wish you knew what living this crap life is like, I need you to help me out please, I need to be out of here October.’
‘Hey look a lot of this is me being a bit selfish, but sometimes put yourself in my position, this is something I never asked for or wanted, I love everyone in that house to death and not part of it at all anymore. It’s tough that’s all, I really need to be get set up myself so get that cert please’
‘While I’m sat here thinking, if this paperwork isn’t done and I’m not in a position to buy somewhere when the rent runs out in [site F] in 5 months now, I’m going to have to move back in, I’m not wasting anymore money, so get it sorted.’