“he has affected my confidence and self-esteem, which I continue to struggle with. This will be with me for the rest of my life, and I cannot imagine that things will ever return to normal.”
“The court should not be punitive or confiscatory for its own sake; the proper way to have regard to such conduct was as a potentially magnifying factor when considering the Wife’s position under the other subsections and criteria, placing the wife’s needs as a much higher priority to those of the husband, because the situation in which she found herself was, in a very real way, his fault”