"There are many illustrations of this principle in the books: J v C is at one and the same time, the classic formulation and the classic application of the principle. I was also referred by Mr Feehan to some words of Lord Templeman in re KD where, shortly after the famous and much-quoted passage beginning, 'The best person to bring up a child is the natural parent.'"
"The repeated reference to a 'right' for a child to be brought up by his or her natural family, or the assumption that there is a presumption to that effect, needs to be firmly and clearly laid to rest. No such 'right' or presumption exists. The only 'right' is for the arrangements for the child to be determined by affording paramount consideration to her welfare throughout her life (in an adoption case) in a manner which is proportionate and compatible with the need to respect any Art 8 rights which are engaged."
"The task of the family court will be, a) to decide whether adoption is in the best interests of A and O, judged by the test in s1(2) of the 2002 Act, of the child's welfare throughout his life, having regard to the various provisions in the welfare checklist in s1(4) of the 2002 Act and applying the principles explained in Re B (A Child) (Care Proceedings: Threshold Criteria)[2013] UKSC 33 and Re W (A Child)[2016] EWCA 6793 ; and, b) to decide whether the welfare of A and O requires their parents' consent to be dispensed with in accordance with s52(1)(b) as that word was explained in Re B, Placement Orders: Parental Consent[2008] EWCA Civ 535 , see also Re W (A Child)[2017] EWHC 829 ."
"Family ties may only be severed in very exceptional circumstances and everything must be done to preserve personal relations and, where appropriate, to 'rebuild' the family…It is not enough to show that a child could be placed in a more beneficial environment for his upbringing."
"It has the connotation of the imperative, what is demanded than what is merely optional or reasonable or desirable."
“In considering whether to make an order under s. 4 of the 1987 Act, the court will have to take into account a number of factors, of which the following will undoubtedly be material (although there may well be others, as the list is not intended to be exhaustive): (1) the degree of commitment which the father has shown towards the child; (2) the degree of attachment which exists between the father and the child; (3) the reasons of the father for applying for the order.”
“Miss Sawhney, for whose submissions I am grateful, starkly submitted that the judge had correctly addressed the tripartite test of Balcombe LJ, looking to the degree of commitment the father has shown towards the child, the degree of attachment which exists between the father and the child and the reasons of the father for applying for the order. Those, I should emphasise, were suggested by Balcombe LJ as some, though not all, of the factors which might be material in answering a much more general question as to whether or not this particular father shows genuine concern for the child and a genuine wish to assume the mantle of responsibility in law which nature has already thrust upon him.”
“M’s life has been punctuated from birth to the present day with many difficulties, tragedies and trauma which impact upon her current psychological wellbeing. She seems to have struggled to overcome the impact of a train of events triggered when just 7 or 8 years. old i.e. when removed from the care of her maternal grandparents. The return to her mother would seem to have been much against M’s wishes and there is evidence that it was a landmark moment in her life.”
“From conditions of perceived safety, happiness and success (educational and social) and from being the centre of attention, there is evidence that M would have moved suddenly into a situation in which she would have lived in a state of almost constant fear as both she and her mother would seem to have been at risk of physical harm, reportedly from various sources. M spoke of retreating to her room to avoid the worst of the circumstances but this would not have provided psychological or emotional respite. She would have been keenly aware of the threats to her mother’s safety whose own vulnerability would have been experienced by M as acutely as the actual danger to herself. The potential violence, the separation from her grandparents and the sudden changes in her life circumstances would have been experienced by M as traumatic. She would then have suffered a psychological exclusion within the home should the step-siblings have been favoured, again, if as reported and it is understandable that M sought to escape these conditions by running away from home at the age of 14.”
“M is intelligent, cognitively and emotionally, her sensitivity no doubt honed by the hypervigilance which will have been essential to her survival although her psychological resilience will have come at a cost, born as it has been of separation, loss and trauma… …There was evidence of M’s determination to care for C but evidence too of her own psychological and emotional vulnerability. For example, while determined to be ‘available’ for C, M still has strong memories and feelings, not only in respect of her own childhood experiences, but of A and B too, all of which are difficult for her to process.”
“She will need much practical support to establish sustainable change but without also attending either to her own potential or to the unfinished business of her distress, M will continue to struggle to make the right choices.”
“M has accessed some new forms of support but these do not yet present as sufficiently robust to provide her with the support she will require at specific moments, for example, at moments of exhaustion (night-time when C isn’t sleeping) or at moments when she becomes acutely aware of her own unmet needs (educational / companionship / more intimate relationships).” 36. He also recognised the ongoing risk of her personal relationships: “M has been working and engaging in a most mature and responsible manner, with perhaps one notable exception. There is evidence suggesting some concealment on M’s part which, given the issues before the court, would be the source of continuing concern especially since she must know that her relationship choices have implications for her care of her daughter.”
“Despite her engagement with support and also counselling services, however, it is too early to expect [the mother] suddenly to have developed the psychological resilience to withstand those moments when she feels either isolated or else under pressure without the support to cope with C’s demands; or should she experience a conflict of interest regarding her personal relationships……[The mother] has undoubted potential and qualities and she has in most respects been working hard to demonstrate a sense of responsibility. While she clearly loves her daughter, she is a young single parent who will at times continue to be troubled by her history of behaviours and adverse life experiences as well as relationship choices”