“It is unusual for a small and non-mobile baby to present with any form of bruising. Research studies which have looked at this question indicate that only one or two percent of non-mobile infants present with any bruising at all. If an infant does have bruising, this is most commonly a solitary bruise and there is usually an adequate explanation for that bruising. It is therefore very concerning indeed when any infant presents with multiple bruising.”
“The bruising was caused by some form of impact injury; a fall or a blow or pressure applied with a hard object, including fingers… In a non-mobile child inflicted injury is [the] more likely explanation for most [of] the bruising.”
“c/o crying more than normal now and coughs, also feverish today, dad had tonsillitis, mum is worried, bottle-fed,… sometimes vomits after food…”
“During the parents’ relationship the mother was subjected to domestic violence perpetrated by the father. This is demonstrated by:— (a) the father coercively controlling the mother by:— (i) isolating her from her family by limiting when she could see and speak to her family; (ii) controlling and monitoring her Facebook account and other social media accounts from November 2016 by either deleting the accounts, checking who she spoke to and sending messages supposedly from the mother to her friends. (b) the father being physically violent to the mother including:— (i) on18 August 2017 hitting the mother’s arm and head causing a bruise and took her car keys off her and in doing so prevented the mother from taking [the child] to obtain medical treatment; (ii) in February 2017 grabbing the mother by the neck and hitting her arm causing her to suffer a bruise. This bruise was seen by Casey Murray and a referral to social services made. (c) the father being verbally abusive and degrading towards the mother throughout the relationship.”
“… due to the pressures on their relationship in relation to money and significant debts, this was a mutual source of arguments between them which at times were heated.” (a) the father coercively controlling the mother by:— (i) isolating her from her family by limiting when she could see and speak to her family; (ii) controlling and monitoring her Facebook account and other social media accounts from November 2016 by either deleting the accounts, checking who she spoke to and sending messages supposedly from the mother to her friends. (b) the father being physically violent to the mother including:— (i) on18 August 2017 hitting the mother’s arm and head causing a bruise and took her car keys off her and in doing so prevented the mother from taking [the child] to obtain medical treatment; (ii) in February 2017 grabbing the mother by the neck and hitting her arm causing her to suffer a bruise. This bruise was seen by Casey Murray and a referral to social services made. (c) the father being verbally abusive and degrading towards the mother throughout the relationship.”
“Just to clear the air about what other people may think, he does not control me in any way, shape or form, he literally runs around the house for me, if I’m throwing up he’s there in a heartbeat rubbing my back, he is constantly trying to work on things to make my life easier and I fully understand that you don’t see me much any more. This is due to settling into the house and getting things for baby and also my choice but it would be nice to know that you at least were happy for me and that I’m safe and loved by him xxx.”
“Just say things like if you think [the father] hit me, he never would. He can't wait for this baby. And [the father’s] mum doesn’t know me like you don’t know [the father] and she really cares for me. I don’t talk to certain people any more because I’m pregnant and want to concentrate on settlin [sic] down. Just say obviously no one will be happy till [the father] is gone.”
“If the court cannot find on a balance of probabilities it was, for example, the mother who caused the rib fractures, it does not follow that it was the father and vice versa. Each proposition is to be decided on the evidence. It is necessary to approach the issue in this way to avoid inadvertently reversing the burden of proof. The parents do not have to show that they did not do something.”