"After many emails and phone calls with the clinic, doctors and past patients, we decided to visit Mumbai and see for ourselves how the process worked."
"It was extremely important for me to have first-hand experience of the surrogates living quarters and conditions. To meet and talk to surrogates in person at different stages of pregnancy. To meet the care takers, nutritionists, cooks, drivers, teachers and cleaners that look after the women to see what they do with their days, what choice of educational program the clinic provides as part of their contract and what happens in the run up to the birth and after. I wanted to try and understand the issues from everyone's point of view. There's more to it than just the intended parents and the surrogate. There are so many more people involved in a responsible surrogacy in India, it cannot be done under the radar and nor does it need to be. Visiting the birthing hospital was surprising. It was a new first world European style hospital (far nicer than my local hospital and many I visited privately) with the order of care being quite clearly, those in need come first so the pregnant women, the unborn baby then us. Walking through the whole process physically, financially and legally where at the time under Indian law the intended parents the surrogate and her husband attended court with all the correct paperwork. A judge would then verbally check the surrogate understands what she was doing and that she is happy to proceed. If the judge is satisfied they will authorise the agreement."
"These are important documents relating to formal arrangements for a child born to Mrs P on [birth date]. As soon as you receive them please telephone Ruth James or Stuart Webber (with a telephone number) and we will arrange for a lawyer to visit you and explain what the documents say to you at our cost."
" In Re X the commissioning parents were separated at the time the application was issued, although had reconciled by the time the matter was heard by the President. At the time they made their application there was a shared care arrangement between the parties with the child splitting his time between the two homes. The President considered the child had his home with the commissioning parents, with both of them, albeit that they lived in separate houses. The President laid emphasis on the fact that the child in that case did not have its home with anyone else. The same applies in this case (that is the case of A and B). The fact that B is unable to have the children to stay in his home at present does not, in itself, mean that the times when he does see the children is any less important or should be treated in a less significant way."
"I intend to lay down no principle beyond that which appears from the authorities. Every case will, to a greater or lesser degree, be fact specific."
"The applicants have proved themselves to be excellent parents over the six and a half years that they have been caring for B. It must be difficult for them to be described in this court process as her intended parents when she has been the centre of their lives for such a long time. However, they are now intent on correcting their error of judgment they made in not pursuing the application for a Parental Order within six months of B's birth."
"It would clearly be in B's interests for the Parental Order to be made to formalise legally her relationship within her family and provide emotional security for her as she grows in understanding about her situation."