“I wish to emphasise that nothing I have said so far goes to the merits of the proposal that AO be placed in Hungary. In stating the legal principles and procedures to be followed in cases involving relinquished babies, I have deliberately refrained from expressing a view as to what is the right outcome for AO. That issue must be argued on another occasion before a court exercising the proper jurisdiction. I would therefore propose that, if the local authority elects to proceed with an application for a care order and an order under schedule 2 para 19, the proceedings should be started and transferred to me as soon as possible. I would hope that space in my list could be found to determine the application within the next three months.”
“A court may only make a care order or supervision order if it is satisfied (a) that the child concerned is suffering, or is likely to suffer, significant harm, and (b) that the harm, or likelihood of harm, is attributable to (i) the care given to the child, or likely to be given to him if the order were not made, not being what it would be reasonable to expect a parent to give to him, or (ii) the chart’s being beyond parental control.” (i) the care given to the child, or likely to be given to him if the order were not made, not being what it would be reasonable to expect a parent to give to him, or (ii) the chart’s being beyond parental control.”
“where the question of whether harm suffered by a child is significant turns on the chart’s health or development, his health or development shall be compared with that which could reasonably be expected of a similar child”
“Adoption exists to serve many social needs. But high among them has been, historically, the desire or need of some mothers to be able to conceal from their own family and friends, the fact of the pregnancy and birth. So far as I know, it has not previously been suggested, nor judicially determined, that that confidentiality of the mother cannot be respected and maintained. If it is now to be eroded, there is, in my judgment, a real risk that more pregnant women would seek abortions or give birth secretly, to the risk of both themselves and their babies …. There is, in my judgment, a strong social need, if it is lawful, to continue to enable some mothers, such as this mother, to make discreet, dignified and humane arrangements for the birth and subsequent adoption of their babies, without their families knowing anything about it, if the mother, for good reason, so wishes.”
“It might be thought that giving up a baby for adoption is a dereliction of responsibility. In many such cases – perhaps most – the truth will be very different. Anyone who has read the accounts of persons who have given up a baby in those circumstances will soon come to see that it is usually a decision taken only after a great deal of thought and anguish, by parents who realise that they cannot look after the baby and wish to give the baby the best opportunity to grow up in a loving home.”
“(1) A local authority may only arrange for, or assist in arranging for, any child in their care to live outside England and Wales with the approval of the court. … (3) The court shall not give its approval under sub- paragraph (1) unless it is satisfied that (a) living outside England and Wales would be in the child’s best interests; (b) suitable arrangements have been, or will be, made for his reception and welfare in the country in which he will live; …. (d) every person who has parental responsibility for the child has consented to his living in that country. … (5) where a person whose consent is required by sub-paragraph (3)(d) fails to give his consent, the court may disregard that provision and give its approval if it is satisfied that that person (a) cannot be found; (b) is incapable of consenting; or (c) is withholding his consent unreasonably.” (a) living outside England and Wales would be in the child’s best interests; (b) suitable arrangements have been, or will be, made for his reception and welfare in the country in which he will live; …. (d) every person who has parental responsibility for the child has consented to his living in that country. … (a) cannot be found; (b) is incapable of consenting; or (c) is withholding his consent unreasonably.”
“I am in no doubt at all that para 19 provides a self-contained code. The court, in granting or refusing approval, must apply the considerations contained in sub-para (3). The child’s best interests are but one of four specific considerations. They have no paramountcy. In determining whether consent is being unreasonably withheld, the court must look to the broad band within which a reasonable parent may exercise a responsible choice.”