“Q: So how do you suggest that AH gets to experience the culture of Iran and get to meet her family, how would you suggest? A: They can go to different country like Turkish is not much different than you know Iran if all the family … Q: How far is Turkey from where …? A: It’s on the same border, they have got the same border with Iran so the culture is probably the same you know it’s a … Q: How long would it take to travel to Turkey? A: It’s less than Iran…. … I have got a member of family in Australia, my sister and brother, you know they live in Australia. She can travel there, the mother can take them there you know, they can go to Turkey all the family come there you know? I will help them, until they come to Turkey to meet her you know. But to go to Iran that’s I won’t take that risk you know; I cannot risk my daughter’s life.”
“The overriding consideration for the court in deciding whether to allow a parent to take a child to a non-Hague Convention country is whether the making of that order would be in the best interests of the child. Where (as in most cases) there is some risk of abduction and an obvious detriment to the child if that risk were to materialise, the court has to be positively satisfied that the advantages to the child of her visiting that country outweigh the risks to her welfare which the visit will entail. This will therefore routinely involve the court in investigating what safeguards can be put in place to minimise the risk of retention and to secure the child's return if that transpires. Those safeguards should be capable of having a real and tangible effect in the jurisdiction in which they are to operate and be capable of being easily accessed by the UK-based parent. Although, in common with Black LJ in Re M (Removal from Jurisdiction: Adjournment), we do not say that no application of this category can proceed in the absence of expert evidence, we consider that there is a need in most cases for the effectiveness of any suggested safeguard to be established by competent and complete expert evidence which deals specifically and in detail with that issue. If in doubt the court should err on the side of caution and refuse to make the order. If the judge decides to proceed in the absence of expert evidence, then very clear reasons are required to justify such a course.”
“Social Services made me aware of this woman, they stated that she is not Iranian and they do not want her around any children and they have reports that she has been around [AH]. I asked them what to do; they told me that they can tell me to protect my child which at the moment is stopping the contact. I would have stopped the contact even if they had not told me to. As a mother I had to protect [AH]. They said we cannot advise you, but you need to protect your child you need to stop the contact.” e. On6 January 2015 , the mother’s solicitors wrote to the father’s solicitors in these terms. “… we have been informed by our client that Durham Social Services have contacted her on the 5th January and advised her to stop contact due to concerns that they have around [the father’s] partner [Ms X] and her pasthistory that is known to them. Our client wants to act in the best interests of [AH] and to safeguard her, at thistime our client is therefore acting under social services recommendations to safeguard [AH] it is bearing this in mind that an application for legal aid has been made and once legal aid is granted an application will be to the Court. Our client has also raised concerns regarding physical chastisement between your client and [AH]. Our client will therefore not be producing [AH] for contact until these issues have been dealt, which we hope can be done as soon as possible”
“The team managers inform me that [the mother] (child’s mother) was not advised by a member of children’s services of Durham County Council to suspend contact between [AH] and her father. Information was shared with mother as to concerns in respect to Ms X / Ms Y (a.k.a. Ms Z). This information had been forwarded from a sexual health nurse in the North Tyneside area. The information was shared with [the mother], on a basis that there was a "pressing need" to inform her of third party information in respect to Ms X/Y. The social worker from the First Contact Service spoke with mother on 5 January, but did not direct mother to stop contact, as the Local Authority were aware there was a Court Order in place. Mother advised that she was seeing her solicitor on 6 January and mother was advised to address all issues of concern with her solicitor. I note that both yourselves and solicitors for mother have made legal aid applications to bring the matter back before the Court. The … Assessment and Inspection Team undertook to speak with the child directly at school with a member of school staff present. Mother was not in the room when the child was spoken to, but gave permission for such interview to take place. Mother had expressed concern that the child had stated that father "slaps, pokes and kisses her too hard" and that the child had been sleeping in father's bed. However, the child stated that she had her own room at father’s and made one comment only of concern that she was “worried” when she was at father’s but would not elaborate on this. The child acknowledged that there were people she could speak to if she was worried in the future. It is apparent that there was a lack of information to justify a s.47 investigation which would need to take place in collaboration with South Tyneside Council in any event…. … Durham County Council do not intend to carry out any safeguarding action and further investigation, as the child is safe in mother’s care in the are of Durham County Council. The issues raising concern originate in the South Tyneside area in any event. I appreciate that any further involvement by a Local Authority might result in joint working between Durham County Council and South Tyneside Council.” h. The mother raised her concerns with the Family Liaison Worker at school, HC. i. On26 January 2015 , AH is reported to have spoken with HC; HC reports the following: “I spoke with [AH] in class and we chatted about what she had done on the weekend. [AH] told me that she had drawn a picture for her mummy. I asked what the picture was of and she said her family, [father, identified by his forename], Mummy, Daddy [the mother’s partner], her two sisters and herself. [AH] then said to me "Guess what [father] does?”
“I asked social worker. [Ms X] has no problem and there are no concerns about her at all.” e. The father denies that he has physically chastised AH in any way at all. He said to me in oral evidence that the allegations are “coming from a sick mother’s mind… what she is doing to her daughter is wrong”; later he described her as “a mentally sick woman”
“she [the mother] has poisoned AH’s mind deliberately, I don’t know what she is after, what she wants to get…”