“it is tempting to take a very risk adverse approach with P and assume that he may well be better served by remaining in the care of the local authority with a plan for adoption. We are concerned not to underestimate the quality of the relationship between P and his parents and to acknowledge the role that his grandfather has played in his life. P is very attached to his parents and we can identify no reason to clearly state that they could not care for him. They are inexperienced parents and have not had the sole care of their son for over 2 years but they cared for him until he was nearly 3 and despite the difficulties in that period, P clearly established an attachment to his parents which has endured throughout the separations.” “a carefully executed planned move has the potential to be successful for P…..it is important that the parents are supported in this transition which will not be without its challenges…guidance must be clear and not authoritarian or dogmatic”