“I’m not saying she’s been sexually abused, but I’m not not saying that.”
“I believe that PX is being abused by her FX, I do not consider that she would be capable of lying. She is being brainwashed but after only 30 minutes with me she started to speak. FX is mentally ill. FX maybe (sic) drugging PX to abuse her.”
“[PX] is being tortured by FX and the conclusion I come to, is that I think he sounds like to me what I believe to be a paedophile…She told us, the mother, that the husband’s asking her to take off her clothes. He wants to see her naked and follows her. When she’s having a bath, he follows her and he peeps. Even when she goes to the toilet…I heard the story from both the mother and daughter, on separate occasions…FX is a pharmacist, and he must be pumping her with medication. My understanding is that it’s racism…the SWs linked to FX are racist.”
“I’ve been sexually abused [by FX], and I believe from what PX and a third party were telling me that PX is also being sexually abused. The LA asked why, if I believed FX was sexually abusing PX, I didn’t report it previously. When I was married to FX, I wasn’t equating my own abuse to what was occurring with PX. PX needed rectal washouts. It was only on reflection and with hindsight that I can now see due to FX’s insistence of keeping commercial rectal irrigation as the option for her treatment, when other options were available, it was because he “wanted to preserve her aesthetic” (as he told me once), he didn’t want her to have a stoma bag. And the sexual abuse was towards me when we were together. I didn’t equate it, it didn’t even occur to me that he would be abusing PX by performing rectal washouts.”
“Daddy did hurt my bum.”
“There’s no evidence that it isn’t FX.”
“MX will not accept anybody’s truth other than her own. Furthermore, in the Court’s assessment she demonstrates no insight into how her behaviours have impacted on the children, continue to impact on the children and indeed very sadly, now place those relationships at grave risk.”
“The school had set up an email account so that everything automatically went to both Ps, but MX didn’t like the set up, and objected.”