“Although [KC] has early signs of dementia, she is able to discuss her finances and any other health issues. She was able to give clear instruction regarding the LPA and who should be named. At the time of the assessment [KC] does have capacity to sign the LPA.”
“this section and section 23 apply if - (a) the person (“P”) has executed or purported to execute an instrument with a view to creating a lasting power of attorney,or (b) an instrument has been registered as a lasting power of attorney conferred by P.”
“I do not believe it would be in my mother’s best interests for the LPAs to go ahead. My sisters and myself are unable to agree on anything and this I feel would be detrimental to my mother. It could delay important decisions for her health, welfare and/or finances and the unnecessary arguing would cause her distress if we were unable to prevent her from being exposed to it….. The level of hostility and objection towards me and everything I have done for our mother, with three against one, has become untenable. Therefore I feel that this is the most appropriate course of action to ensure minimal disruption to KC.”
“Whilst my mother has been living with me the past two years, and on advice from the bank, I am a joint account holder on my mother’s account. I have kept strict records of all ingoings and outgoings with receipts throughout this time and have always made it clear where money is kept. I have detailed and up to date accounts of all financial transactions within this period. I am aware that some monies have been spent by SC, AC and CP but am unaware if they have kept any records or receipts during the same time period. I feel that given the conflict between my sisters and me, unfortunately no formal agreement will be reached as we are polarised in our opinions and there would be ongoing disagreements about the management of our mother’s finances. I feel that it would be in our mother’s best interests to have an independent person appointed to control and manage her finances. This removes any concern from all parties about the control of finances, and allows a transparent process which also protects my mother from exposure to further conflict. This independent person can file the reports to the court and the four daughters at pre agreed regular intervals.”
“If the LPA’s are registered then responsibility for the care of KC must pass immediately to SC/AC/CP. The acrimonious and hostile relationship between the parties would mitigate against LCR providing care for KC.”
“LCR and her husband for more than two years have verbally abused, intimidated and bullied AC and myself. LCR has made wrongful accusations about deceit and family fraud in relation to myself, which led to the traumatic experience of being interviewed by the police, LCR’s husband physically assaulted me, there has been denial of contact of KC by LCR with AC and myself and anger management outbursts and inappropriate behaviour by LCR and her husband in front of our mother, (which AC and myself always chose to ignore while in the presence of KC) AC and myself have always been civil and shown no hostility towards LCR during these outbursts. The above incidents have been documented/recorded in emails. In 2016 KC asked me to look after some of her money and I was asked by KC “don’t tell those two….as I don’t want them knowing all my business … ”