“Everyone’s right to life shall be protected by law. No one shall be deprived of his life intentionally …”
“[The decision maker] must take into account, if it is practicable and appropriate to consult them, the views of … (b) anyone engaged in caring for the person or interested in his welfare …”
“it is very difficult to know his subjective views since the stroke”
“Working in a hospital for 30 years, he saw sickness and death. Death doesn't scare my Dad. What scared him was loss of dignity. He saw some of the worst situations people can be in and he would talk about that and say, "you shouldn't always keep people alive". I honestly thought that my Dad had done something about it. He said it so many times, that he didn't want to be kept alive, that I can't believe he didn't write that down. When my disabled sister, K, was alive, he told me he had an envelope taped to the bottom of the chest of drawers with his will, and the name of the Home he wanted her to go to, and the names of the staff he employed to help look after her, and even the name of a van to be available as a taxi for me - honest to God, that's how organised he was. I can't believe that he did all that for my sister, and he did it for my Mum when she was dying with cancer, but he didn't do it for himself. I'm so angry with him about that. How could he not have done it for himself?! He would never want to be just a body in a bed. I heard his passion about this, and now we're living it. Everything that he used to say for all those years about the people in the hospital, now we're living it. And I'm failing him, because he would want to be just let go.” “Working in a hospital for 30 years, he saw sickness and death. Death doesn't scare my Dad. What scared him was loss of dignity. He saw some of the worst situations people can be in and he would talk about that and say, "you shouldn't always keep people alive". I honestly thought that my Dad had done something about it. He said it so many times, that he didn't want to be kept alive, that I can't believe he didn't write that down. When my disabled sister, K, was alive, he told me he had an envelope taped to the bottom of the chest of drawers with his will, and the name of the Home he wanted her to go to, and the names of the staff he employed to help look after her, and even the name of a van to be available as a taxi for me - honest to God, that's how organised he was. I can't believe that he did all that for my sister, and he did it for my Mum when she was dying with cancer, but he didn't do it for himself. I'm so angry with him about that. How could he not have done it for himself?! He would never want to be just a body in a bed. I heard his passion about this, and now we're living it. Everything that he used to say for all those years about the people in the hospital, now we're living it. And I'm failing him, because he would want to be just let go.”
“Because my dad worked in hospital, he would often talk about the fact that it is cruel to keep people in a bed for so long if they can’t do anything for themselves. He would often say it was not how it should be, being “a body in a bed” and that he wouldn’t want to be that way. He spoke about the indignity of being in such a situation. He was a very dignified man. He would make remarks such as ‘just put me in a corner by the range with a gun and I’ll sort it out meself’. His wishes and feelings about this could not have been clearer.”