“I confirm you having instructed me that you wished to leave your entire estate to your son D and nothing to your other son A due to the fact that A already had the family home X Road valued at around£1,000,000 transferred into his own name. In addition your late husband bought a shop for A during his lifetime and you purchased a house for him many years ago so that he now owns two properties. Furthermore you instructed me that since your husband’s death, A has been very aggressive and abusive towards you and tried to physically attack you when you sought to enquire about how he managed to get X Road transferred into his sole name. You also instructed me that you have a close relationship with D and his children but no relationship with A’s children.”
“J has a moderate severity dementia which has caused a deterioration in her short term memory so that she cannot retain information such as the worth of her assets, the names of her grandchildren and whether she has been visited. Her judgment is poor causing her to react in an over-reactive manner and be unable to weigh information. It is my opinion that she lacks capacity therefore to make a will or manage what was her wish the complex task of transfer of land.”
“We were initially instructed to give advice on the prospects of J instituting legal proceedings against A to set aside the transfer. However J now does not wish to go to the expense of bringing legal proceedings against her son A. Instead, she wishes to make a Will leaving all of her estate to her son in order to equalise the distribution of her estate between her two sons, taking into account that A has already been given a property worth around£1,000,000 .”
“Understandably there has also been a breakdown in her relationship with her son A who has been abusive and aggressive towards her when she has sought to obtain further information from him regarding the transfer.”