“My brother Paul is controlling our mum’s finances without legal authority. He has made no money available for her personal needs. I suspect he is renting out her villa in Spain and keeping the proceeds even though he claims it has stood empty for years. Mum could be moved to a better care home. Mum’s care is partly funded by Croydon Council. Paul writes a cheque each month for the balance. I believe he has a debit card which he is using.”
“My brother Paul took control of my mum’s finances when she returned from Spain four years ago and was placed in a care home as she has suffered with Alzheimer’s for a number of years. I have personally purchased all my mum’s personal requisites. Mum’s care is partly funded but she is allowed for herself£24.40 per week by law. This equates to over£5,000 for the four years, little of which has been spent on my mum, apart from the odd hairdressing bill he has paid for.”
“My mum’s care home is paid by direct debit. The villa in Spain is not being rented. Social Services have looked into this. My mum is happy at [the care home] and it was decided for her at a best interest meeting and so she will remain at [the care home]. I do hope this helps.”
“I do not wish to be included on this application with Stephanie as I do not agree with the things she has said about my brother Paul. This is untrue. I went to Spain on the4 April 2015 and my mum’s villa is not being rented out. Most of mum’s money is paid to [the care home] by direct debit. My brother is an honest and trustworthy person. I think my sister Mandy and Paul should have Court of Protection.”
“The allegations made towards my brother Paul are unfounded. We had a best interest meeting on the 13th March with the Social Services and it was decided by myself, Social Services, my sister Susan, my brother Paul, the CPN and the psychiatric doctor, that it would be in our mum’s best interest to remain at [the care home]. Stephanie did not attend this meeting. My mum is allowed to keep£22 per week. The home is paid by direct debit from my mum’s bank account and topped up by Croydon Council. I came back from Spain on the 11th April and my mum’s villa is not being rented out. The villa is in my mum’s and brother’s name. Social Services have the proof of this. This has been an ongoing thing with Stephanie. Stephanie has only visited my mother 4-6 times in four and a half years. I don’t believe Stephanie has my mum’s best interest at heart and the only reason she wants my mum moved is because she has caused problems at the care home. On one incident the police were called.”