‘Decisions about incapacitated people must always be determined by their best interests, but the starting point is their right to respect for family life where it exists. The burden is always on the State to show that an incapacitated person’s welfare cannot be sustained by living and being looked after by his or her family, with or without outside support.’
'I am not saying that there is in law any presumption that mentally incapacitated adults are better off with their families: often they will be; sometimes they will not be. But respect for our human condition, regard for the realities of our society and the common sense to which Lord Oliver of Aylmerton referred in In re KD …, surely indicate that the starting point should be the normal assumption that mentally incapacitated adults will be better off if they live with a family rather than in an institution – however benign and enlightened the institution may be, and however well integrated into the community – and that mentally incapacitated adults who have been looked after within their family will be better off if they continue to be looked after within the family rather than by the State. [116] We have to be conscious of the limited ability of public authorities to improve on nature. We need to be careful not to embark upon 'social engineering'
‘… note that you did not feel it appropriate to move to any SOVA [Safeguarding of Vulnerable Adults] process at this time’
‘Outcome. Significant event? No’
‘… I exhibit the … report of a carer … which appears to somewhat contradict the glowing exposition of Mr C…’ ‘Mr C is disingenuous regarding Mrs C’s care needs …’ ‘I would again high-light that his complaint … followed his agreement to installation of equipment, at the review on the 15th instance! This was precisely the sort of behaviour he displayed previously to professionals — i.e. contradictory …’ ‘However, he promptly contradicted himself on this point as evidenced in paragraph 5!’ ‘I do not see that there are any disadvantages to Mrs C being at [S Care Home] …’ ‘It is my opinion that all contact needs to be supervised. This is because of the risks Mr C poses to Mrs C.’
‘Never, I was never angry with them’. ‘I would not call them arguments …’
‘My wife is only to be touched by me … I’m willing to do it, I don’t want anyone to do it’
‘I am willing to accept a carer touching my wife, not a problem’
‘The goal is safety — if that coincides with Mrs C being at home, that’s good’