“We found out in March 2013 that her son-in-law David had removed£4,000 of DC’s own savings. We did confront him and he said yes he removed it. We informed the nursing home, safeguarding, and the police. None of them took it seriously. We were told he was working for her best interest! We kept contacting the home as they still contact David to discuss her funding which we find disgusting due to the circumstances. We keep contacting Safeguarding. We were told that Finance Safeguarding would be taking it to the Court of Protection. I trusted them to do this but they lied and never did. We have tried to protect her and keep him away from her but the nursing home will not listen to us. They find it somewhat amusing. We have brought her toiletries and clothing for 3 years. Her daughter died September 2012. Since then he has made it difficult - even more so now - to look after her. He’s told the home that we cannot buy nothing for her any more but no one else does. DC’s daughter’s wishes, before she died, were to look after her mum but it feels he is stopping us doing this.”
“Since the passing of DC’s daughter, Maureen (who was my wife) in September 2012 I have assumed responsibility for DC’s welfare. During this year Alan and Donna have accused me of financial mismanagement of DC’s affairs, which were investigated by Croydon Social Services and by the Police and nothing was found to be irregular. Myself and the majority of the family believe that it would be in the best interest of DC to have Croydon Council govern her financial affairs as they have no vested interest and we believe this would be fair and transparent to all involved..”
“I believe that it would be in the best interests of DC for her finances and affairs to be managed by Croydon Social Services because they, unlike any family member, would have no vested interest in her estate and this would prevent any family member from attempting to take over her affairs and this would be the best course of action for all involved.”
“We are objecting to the London Borough of Croydon being DC’s deputies with good reason. Solicitors’ letter enclosed. We are asking for the court to reinstate us, Alan and Donna, as financial and health and welfare deputies for DC. We feel no reason has ever been given why we could not be appropriately appointed as deputies.”
“Asking kindly of extended time to have the chance to reply and send evidence against the London Borough of Croydon’s statement of argument to the Court of Protection towards the hearing 10.03.15 at 11am with Senior Judge Lush. Due to London Borough of Croydon’s statement and evidence sent to us the applicants on the27th February 2015 at 4.34 pm, when it should have been issued by 4.00 pm, we did not have the chance or fairness to argue against the London Borough of Croydon’s statement which we have all evidence supporting our claim to be dependable deputies.”
“It is the view of the safeguarding social worker that DC’s best interests are best served by having as much independent scrutiny as possible. Due to her advanced dementia she is currently unable to give her wishes and feelings. We do know however that her previous wishes and feelings involved having her daughter and son in law involved in her care and finances. It is the council’s view that David has always been important in DC’s life and that he supported his wife with her role when she was alive. It is noted that there are no allegations regarding Maureen and she would have been aware of David’s actions during most of the contested period. The council are concerned about the motives of Donna and Alan which seem to focus on having financial control of DC’s limited financial affairs rather than working in consultation with her wider family and the care home where she lives. We would respectfully request that the court consider Croydon Council as financial deputy and not appointing a welfare deputy.”
“David stated that he visits DC regularly (every Wednesday) and that her two favourite people were himself and his now deceased wife, Maureen (DC’s daughter). He stated that he had a great affection for DC and that in the past she used to accompany himself and his wife on holidays. In talking about the background to this matter, David stated that the relationship had broken down between Donna/Alan (his son) and his family. He explained his concerns that Donna controlled Alan and that he did not want her “troubling my mother in law”
“Regarding the substantiation of the allegations of financial abuse, a safeguarding adults’ conference dated27/01/2015 concluded that, in respect of the allegation that David removed funds from his mother in law’s bank account, this was ruled inconclusive. In respect of the allegation that David made DC homeless, this was ruled unsubstantiated. In respect of the final allegation concerning the missing funds from the sale of DC’s house to David, this allegation was ruled to require further investigation. The safeguarding conference also concluded that the matter as to who should be appointed deputy for DC’s finances should be decided by the Court of Protection. In making the decision it should be taken into consideration that the care staff who have looked after DC since 2011, in addition to David, who the care staff believe acts in her best interests and who elicits the most positive responses from DC, conclude that it is in DC’s best interests for Croydon Council to be appointed deputy for DC’s finances for the various reasons given in my report. In addition, a letter from the Court of Protection dated 04/02/14 states that the senior judge is in agreement with the General Visitor’s recommendations concerning this protective measure and will be appointing Croydon as deputy for property and affairs for DC. The letter also states that the senior judge has directed that there will be no health and welfare deputy appointed.”
“The Act and Code are, therefore, constructed on the basis that the vast majority of decisions concerning incapacitated adults are taken informally and collaboratively by individuals or groups of people consulting and working together. It is emphatically not part of the scheme underpinning the Act that there should be one individual who as a matter of course is given a special legal status to make decisions about incapacitated persons. Experience has shown that working together is the best policy to ensure that incapacitated adults such as E receive the highest quality of care. This case is an example of what can go wrong when people do not work together.”