“I am writing to you to ask if you are willing to be executor of my will in place of Keith as he feels he will not be able to cope with it. I am worried about him as no doubt all the family is concerned. He seems to have a lot of problems health wise. I hope you and the rest of the family are well. I am not doing badly for an old un coming up to 91 still doing the shopping and cooking etc, although the garden is getting out of hand.”
“The person to whom this application relates is my uncle. I am the closest living relative. I am the executor of his will. I wish to do the very best I can for him in his remaining years. I confirm that I have had regular contact with my uncle over the years, and he has stayed with us in West Wales on several occasions and has always been involved in family events such as weddings.”
“I have known AW for nearly 30 years. I am not his lodger but his partner. He proposed marriage on numerous occasions. So DW’s personal statement to the court regarding regular contact with his uncle must relate to greetings not visits. His uncle’s visit to West Wales took place before I knew AW. DW saw him for the first time recently in August 2014 following a phone call from my sister informing him of his uncle’s deteriorating condition. I therefore oppose DW’s application as he has had so little contact with his uncle over so many years and has little personal knowledge of his tastes and needs whereas DB has been a good friend to AW and will act in AW’s best interests as his deputy.”
“It seems sensible and more appropriate for DB and DW to be joint deputies. Although I do not know DB personally, he has been in touch with AW for many years and MG has always been very loyal to him. My relationship with DW is no longer and I don’t feel I can trust him after past history. They both have genuine interests but having joint ownership of financial matters can give complete transparency and avoid conflicts both now and at a later stage. I would feel confident they would work well together.”
“Further to the court order dated18th December 2014 , I can confirm that DW and I have conferred and mutually agreed, via telephone conversation on17th January 2014 that DW shall be appointed as sole deputy in relation to his uncle’s (AW’s) financial and property affairs.”
“We have spoken to our client on the telephone this morning who confirmed that he telephoned your client on the evening of Wednesday the 25th of February. Our client proposed to your client that a joint appointment be made by the court to appoint both your client and our client with regards to the affairs of AW. We record the fact that your client rejected the offer stating that he would not accept co-operation with regards to the affairs of AW. We find your client’s attitude surprising to say the least bearing in mind that our client is the nephew of AW and your client is no relation to AW whatsoever. Furthermore, our client considered that it was in the interests of costs being incurred in relation to the assets of his uncle that this matter be compromised without a formal hearing.”
“The applicant opposes the respondent’s application for deputyship. The applicant seeks an order that he be appointed as AW’s sole deputy for property and affairs. The applicant submits that his sole appointment would be in AW’s best interests. He does not agree to the appointment of DW as deputy, whether as sole or joint deputy. He does not believe that joint deputyship would benefit AW, as it is likely that the respondent will become increasingly obstructive, to the detriment of AW. The applicant has filed and served a witness statement dated27th February 2015 . The court is referred to that statement and the exhibits attached thereto. The respondent has not filed a witness statement. The applicant and his wife have been heavily involved in assisting AW since March 2014, when MG was admitted to hospital and AW became increasingly disorientated. The applicant and his wife contacted social services and arranged for AW to receive care, initially at Gravesham Place, Gravesend, Kent. When his condition further deteriorated, AW was transferred to [the residential care home] on11th June 2014 . In addition, the applicant has also been assisting AW with his finances, including dealing with correspondence with the council, the Department for Work and Pensions and the care home, opening a bank account for AW into which benefits could be paid, and ensuring that buildings insurance for AW’s property is maintained. The court is also referred to the acknowledgments filed by SB and MG. Both have indicated that they consent to the applicant’s application for the reasons set out in their respective acknowledgments. In respect of the respondent’s application, BP (great niece of AW) has filed an acknowledgment indicating her support for the applicant and expressing concern about the respondent being appointed, suggesting that instead there should be a joint deputyship. The court should note that MG and the applicant have filed acknowledgments in which they oppose the respondent’s application.”
“I am the sister-in-law of AW and have known him since school days. In the late 1980’s AW joined the Baptist Church where his great friends were the minister, his wife and their young children. Wanting someone of his own family to attend the baptismal ceremony, AW asked me to attend, which I was happy to do, being his nearest living member of family. Some years later AW became friendly with MG. They enjoyed walking holidays together and got on very well. Unfortunately, MG became mentally ill and this caused AW such distress that he told me categorically that they would never be more than friends. They never lived together – each kept up their own establishment and in no sense was MG a partner or a common law wife. They got on well together and had some good times. MG did what she could for him, but repeats of her mental illness have stopped them from being any more than friends. In 2008 AW showed the first signs of dementia and was no longer in complete control of his life. My son, DW, is willing and able to look after his uncle’s affairs so that AW may spend the rest of his life in peace.”
“I have always enjoyed walking and started going on rambles. I met MG and found that she too liked walking and we went on many rambles together. I acquired a book on the Pilgrims’ Way. The walk goes from Winchester to Canterbury and MG and I decided to walk it in stages three days at a time, stopping overnight for bed and breakfast. We commenced it on Easter Monday 1994 and finished the walk in the following spring. Since then we have walked the Weald Way from Gravesend to Eastbourne and have now started on the Greensand Way, which goes through Kent and Surrey. MG and I have much in common and our love and respect for each other has deepened over the years. Do not be surprised if you hear a tinkling of bells.”