“JU, EU’s son, has spoken on occasion with his father on the telephone since EU entered residential care. EU consistently advises all persons he speaks with that he has been kidnapped and placed in residential care. His son has indicated that this is true. Prior to this it is understood that EU had limited contact from JU. JU has never visited his father despite promises to do so. He has stated that in his view his father does not have dementia, based upon how his father presents when they speak on the telephone. It should be noted that following contact with his son, EU often becomes noticeably more confused and distressed and staff have expressed their concern relating to the relationship.”
“Between29 October 2012 and28 November 2012 he approached EU’s old solicitor Lewis Rose from Flint Bishop Solicitors and Laura Doherty of Crane and Walton Solicitors and Christopher Cumberbatch of Marshall Hatchick instructing them on his father’s behalf. ... More recently, JU has appointed a solicitor from Margary & Miller to represent him in his opposition to the local authority’s application in favour of his appointment.”
“My father is being held in this home against his will. He has been given no other choice. He is very unhappy and wishes to leave. My father asked me to act on his behalf. I fully believe that my father is capable of making this decision and does understand. I am trying to help my father uphold his wishes. My father no longer has any family or friends in the area where he lives. I would like him to move where I live. He has some friends nearby who would like to visit him. It would also enable me to spend some time with him, which he would like. I have spoken at length to people involved with my father but without success. Nobody seems willing to discuss any other option for my father apart from the present one. I am aware that my father’s possessions have already been taken.”
“I would recommend that Suffolk County Council (‘SCC’) is better placed to become EU’s deputy to continue the work they have been undertaking for the last two years. A local authority managing EU’s finances guarantees against financial abuse and will ensure that financial transactions are made in EU’s best interests and in a timely manner. SCC has had some concerns regarding JU’s expressed wish to become EU’s deputy. The father and son relationship is tenuous. They were estranged for many years and they live a long distance apart. Conversations with JU indicate that he has given little consideration to the full range of responsibilities an appointed deputy undertakes. Nor has he demonstrated that he has the qualities to manage the affairs of another. I wrote to JU on28/04/2014 in accordance with the court’s directions following a lengthy telephone conversation with him on 15/04/14 when he put forward the statement that as EU’s son he was rightly entitled to become his deputy and could manage EU’s affairs adequately from a distance. He stated that he did not trust Suffolk Adult Care Services. He did not seem to comprehend the wider fiduciary duties of a deputy. I was concerned that JU was expressing his own interests and not those of his father. As yet the proposal to have a three way meeting with EU, JU and a social worker and/or independent mental capacity advocate has not been possible as JU has not indicated when he would be available to attend. However, given the strength of feeling expressed by JU, it has been decided that some further consideration of this matter should take place before the court adjudicates on this matter, and a best interests decision made by the authority. Regrettably this has not been completed at the time of making this statement. It is proposed that further efforts will be made to meet with JU and to arrange a meeting with him and EU so that they can consider the future dealings of EU’s finances and affairs together with Adult Care Services (‘ACS’). ACS will request that an IMCA is appointed for this process. A further best interests meeting will be held, to which JU will be invited, and my authority will make a further best interests decision regarding how EU’s finances should be managed. There are a number of possible outcomes but the decision will primarily be as to whether SCC will pursue its application to become deputy or alternatively will withdraw its opposition to JU’s appointment.”
“Consideration to be given to EU’s consistent view around contact with his son JU. EU said that during his telephone conversations with JU, his son says that he plans to visit him however this does not occur. EU cannot state the last time he saw his son JU and reported that he has never seen the man. Consideration to be given to his past contact with his other son TU. It has been reported by Carol Richards that TU did not previously have contact with his father. This began to occur on29/01/2014 when he came to inform EU that his son RU had passed away. EU has stated that he lived his later life alone. Consideration to be given that EU has stated he wishes to remain where he is. He said that he has grown used to it. [The residential care home] is set in rural location with large gardens. Consideration should be given to EU’s previous occupation of a gardener. Consideration should be given to the complexity of the family dynamics. ACS’s statement states that the father and sons’ relationship is tenuous, and they have been estranged for many years and live a long distance apart. IMCA noted that JU asked the IMCA what was actually wrong with his father. It appeared he has no understanding of his father’s capacity and current health. When IMCA asked him about dealing with health and welfare decisions he did not comment. Consideration that EU has stated that he wishes ACS to manage his finances and not a family member. EU stated that JU “never comes to see him, yet he wants to manage my finances.”