“Decisions about incapacitated people must always be determined by their best interests, but the starting point is their right to respect for family life where it exists. The burden is always on the State to show that an incapacitated person’s welfare cannot be sustained by living and being looked after by his or her family, with or without outside support.” 142. "[115] … As I said in Re S, at para [48]: 143. 'I am not saying that there is in law any presumption that mentally incapacitated adults are better off with their families: often they will be; sometimes they will not be. But respect for our human condition, regard for the realities of our society and the common sense to which Lord Oliver of Aylmerton referred in In re KD …, surely indicate that the starting point should be the normal assumption that mentally incapacitated adults will be better off if they live with a family rather than in an institution – however benign and enlightened the institution may be, and however well integrated into the community – and that mentally incapacitated adults who have been looked after within their family will be better off if they continue to be looked after within the family rather than by the State. 144. [116] We have to be conscious of the limited ability of public authorities to improve on nature. We need to be careful not to embark upon 'social engineering'. And we should not lightly interfere with family life. If the State – typically, as here, in the guise of a local authority – is to say that it is the more appropriate person to look after a mentally incapacitated adult than her own partner or family, it assumes, as it seems to me, the burden – not the legal burden but the practical and evidential burden – of establishing that this is indeed so. And common sense surely indicates that the longer a vulnerable adult's partner, family or carer have looked after her without the State having perceived the need for its intervention, the more carefully must any proposals for intervention be scrutinised and the more cautious the court should be before accepting too readily the assertion that the State can do better than the partner, family or carer. 145. [117] At the end of the day, the simple point, surely, is this: the quality of public care must be at least as good as that from which the child or vulnerable adult has been rescued. Indeed that sets the requirement too low. If the State is to justify removing children from their parents or vulnerable adults from their relatives, partners, friends or carers it can only be on the basis that the State is going to provide a better quality of care than that which they have hitherto been receiving: see Re F, F v Lambeth London Borough Council[2002] 1 FLR 217 at para [43]. 146. [118] The fact is that in this type of case the court is exercising an essentially protective jurisdiction. The court should intervene only where there is a need to protect a vulnerable adult from abuse or the real possibility of abuse: see Re K, A Local Authority v N and others[2005] EWHC 2956 (Fam) ,[2007] 1 FLR 399 , at paras [90]-[92], and X City Council v MB, NB and MAB (by his litigation friend the Official Solicitor)[2006] EWHC 168 (Fam) ,[2006] 2 FLR 968 , at para [27]. The jurisdiction is to be invoked if, but only if, there is a demonstrated need to protect a vulnerable adult. And the court must be careful to ensure that in rescuing a vulnerable adult from one type of abuse it does not expose her to the risk of treatment at the hands of the State which, however well intentioned, can itself end up being abusive of her dignity, her happiness and indeed of her human rights. That said, the law must always be astute to protect the weak and helpless, not least in circumstances where, as often happens in such cases, the very people they need to be protected from are their own relatives, partners or friends: NS v MI[2006] EWHC 1646 (Fam) ,[2007] 1 FLR 444 , at para [8]. 147. [119] There is one final point to be made. The court, as I have said, is entitled to intervene to protect a vulnerable adult from the risk of future harm – the risk of future abuse or future exploitation – so long as there is a real possibility, rather than a merely fanciful risk, of such harm. But the court must adopt a pragmatic, common sense and robust approach to the identification, evaluation and management of perceived risk.”
“GC is a man in the 83rd year of his life and my concern is to ask myself: how will he most comfortably and happily spend the last years that are available to him? Secondly I have approached this case on the basis that his primary need is for emotional warmth, emotional security and the commitment of human relationship. That has been a huge feature of his life to date and one that is not readily to be set aside. Next it seems to me that for the elderly there is often an importance in place which is not generally recognised by others; not only physical place but also the relational structure that is associated with a place ....”
“It seems to me that it would be wrong not to try, even with a degree of pessimism, a placement with a package of support that has been advanced, and this is another factor that has weighed with me in this case; that it would be wrong to take a step, unless one had to that had a real prospect of preventing a placement at home ever being tried.”
'Pending the enactment of a checklist or other statutory direction it seems to me that the first instance judge with the responsibility to make an evaluation of the best interests of a claimant lacking capacity should draw up a balance sheet. The first entry should be of any factor or factors of actual benefit … Then on the other sheet the judge should write any counter-balancing disbenefits to the applicant … Then the judge should enter on each sheet the potential gains and losses in each instance making some estimate of the extent of the possibility that the gain or loss might accrue. At the end of that exercise the judge should be better placed to strike a balance between the sum of the certain and possible gains against the sum of the certain and possible losses. Obviously only if the account is in relatively significant credit will the judge conclude that the application is likely to advance the best interests of the claimant.’” '
“Everyone lawfully within the territory … shall … have the right to liberty of movement and freedom to choose his residence.”
“[The Code] describes itself as guidance. There is a categorical difference between guidance and instruction. …. The Code does not have the binding effect which a statutory provision or a statutory instrument would have. It is what it purports to be, guidance and not instruction. But it is much more than mere advice which an addressee is free to follow or not as it chooses. It is guidance which any hospital should consider with great care, and from which it should depart only if it has cogent reasons for doing so … In reviewing any challenge to a departure from the Code, the court should scrutinise the reasons given by the hospital for departure with the intensity which the importance and sensitivity of the subject matter requires … It is not for the courts to resolve debatable issues of professional practice, but to rule on issues of law. If a practice is supported by cogent reasoned justification, the court is not entitled to condemn it as unlawful.”
“I take you to be my wedded wife/ husband. To have and to hold, from this day forward, for better, for worse, for richer, for poorer, in sickness or in health, to love and to cherish ‘till death do us part.”
“I did not see evidence that her husband is not caring for her adequately. We saw her separately to him and she was positive about him and the care that he provides. She appeared clean and the flat was clean and tidy. When he was in the room she did not appear frightened of him. He spoke about appreciating her company and having a sense of responsibility towards her as they have been married for 35 years …. In my opinion it is currently in her best interest to stay with Mr H and for him to be her carer. However, his health is compromised and he may not be able to sustain the level of care she requires. Therefore regular contact with services is important so that services can step in and help when this is needed. …. I have not offered Mrs H follow-up by MHCOP [Mental Health Care of Older People services]. I will discharge her.”
“Her husband visits her daily and arrives about 3.00pm, and he brings in food and drinks for her or encourages her to eat her meal provided by the hospital” (Manual handling report of PH and LR,17 May 2011 ). “Mr H has brought in food, which Staff Nurse X noticed Mrs H ate well” (IMCA report). “She is not always willing to take her medication … She often takes her medication when her husband visits” (Manual handling report of PH and LR,17 May 2011 ). “Mrs H did not want to talk to me about issues regarding her care and accommodation but agreed at her husband’s request” (Statement of KM dated25 April 2011 ). “I did not see evidence that her husband is not caring for her adequately. We saw her separately to him and she was positive about him and the care that he provides” (Dr K’s report of20 September 2010 ). On the present evidence, I also find that a move to a nursing home is likely to have a detrimental effect on Mrs H’s mental health and on her husband (who she wishes to be considered). I accept Mr H’s evidence on this point because it is consistent both with what Mrs H has said and her resistance to professional or institutional care: “My wife will most certainly go into decline. She has always been very clear to me that she did not want to go into a nursing home, or a similar environment and I made a solemn promise to her many years ago that I would do everything I could to ensure that she was cared for in her own home by myself.” “I cannot stand by and watch my wife give up hope, which I am certain is what will happen. My wife is a very strong woman in many ways but it will destroy her if she cannot come home and in turn this will destroy me.” “Everyday she tells me when I visit that she is upset and feeling low and she wants to come home. It breaks my heart to see her crying and begging me to take her home, she will not eat or drink during the day and spends much of her time sleeping or pretending to sleep until I arrive in the afternoon. When I get to the hospital I will often find her lunch sitting untouched on her bedside table … and she will not have consumed much if any water which is very bad as she needs to consume water throughout the day to make sure her catheter works sufficiently.” “As things stand I am more than capable of providing her with suitable care, nothing has changed since her admittance to hospital in January 2011.”
“What I will say is that I have been married to JH for over thirty years and during that time we have been devoted to one another. I do not consider it to be an understatement to say that we cannot live without each other and if the court went against my wife, mine and the wishes of her family and placed her in a nursing home I believe it would be the end of us. I do not say this lightly and I do not want this to be interpreted as a threat, it is a simple fact.” “One thing I would wish to make clear is that this is our life, [JH] and mine, we have lived together happily for over thirty years and are still devoted to one another. The professionals involved have come into our lives and instead of trying to understand us they have tried to impose their thoughts about JH’s care on us. These people will come and go, there will be different carers, social workers and district nurses that will come and go from our lives, but we are each others constants. We are husband and wife and this is our life, this is not work, not something we will be involved in for a few months here and there before we move onto a new client but it is our life and the outcome of theses proceedings have the ability to break up a loving family because we are considered to be difficult. I am made out to be causing harm to my wife, this is simply not true. The care I provide to my wife stems from the love and respect I have for her and the wish for her to be happy. The care I give her is not because I am being paid to do it. When I give her care I am not restrained in the time I can dedicate to her because I have several other service users that need my attention as would be the case if she were placed in a nursing home. The level of care I can provide for my wife will always be superior to that provided by people employed to provide it. It can be seen that from the evidence of the local authority there has been no reference to any criticism of the care I have provided to her. I know that I may come across as being difficult and that I may appear to be a stubborn man, but everything I have ever done has always been with the belief that I am doing in her best interests.”
“GC is a man in the 83rd year of his life and my concern is to ask myself: how will he most comfortably and happily spend the last years that are available to him? Secondly I have approached this case on the basis that his primary need is for emotional warmth, emotional security and the commitment of human relationship. That has been a huge feature of his life to date and one that is not readily to be set aside. Next it seems to me that for the elderly there is often an importance in place which is not generally recognised by others; not only physical place but also the relational structure that is associated with a place ....” “It seems to me that it would be wrong not to try, even with a degree of pessimism, a placement with a package of support that has been advanced, and this is another factor that has weighed with me in this case; that it would be wrong to take a step, unless one had to that had a real prospect of preventing a placement at home ever being tried.”