"In summary, the defenceaccepts that these matters show he has on occasion behaved poorly to two previous partners and indeed, he also accepts that he has behaved poorly to C by using verbal threats. However, the defence submits that neither individually or cumulatively does the evidences show that the defendant has a tendency to act in a controlling and coercive way."
"You have to decide whether the evidence shows that the defendant has a tendency to behave in this way. If you are not sure that the evidence shows that the defendant has such a tendency then you must ignore that evidence, but if you are sure, it does show such a tendency, then this may support the prosecution case on count 1."
"Again, you must look at all the circumstances as you find them to have been. To decide whether his belief was reasonable or not you must consider whether an ordinary, reasonable man in the same circumstances as the defendant would have believed that C was consenting. Therefore, the question you must ask yourselves is, 'Was this a reasonable belief', and not, 'Did the defendant think that it was reasonable?'"
"I think that's when he told me I had to suck his dick. I'm just trying to think. I don’t remember if it's on the same day. Everything just merges into one."