“So, submission is not consent. You must look at all of the evidence of the relationship between [C] and the defendant and decide whether she was so worn down by the defendant that she give in, or submitted to the sexual activity alleged, rather than genuinely consented. Now, if you are sure that [C did not want the sexual activity, penetration, video recording, and of course the sexual assault and the attempt, she did not want that to occur, but if you are sure that she was put in a position by the defendant's behaviour where she felt that she had no alternative but to allow it to happen, that would be submission and not consent. If, on the other hand, [C] was, or may have been reluctant to allow the sexual activity to take place, but did in fact agree to it, then that would be reluctant consent and the defendant would be not guilty.”
“You must decide whether you are sure that [C] did not consent. If you are sure that she was asleep (counts 1 and 2), that she told the Defendant to stop or said no (counts 3 and 4) or knew nothing of the video recording (count 5) then that is evidence that you may use to decide that she did not consent. However, in respect of count 3 you must also consider whether there was a prior agreement that the ordinary meaning of the words “stop” or “no” was overridden and that only the use of the safe word “pineapples” indicated an actual lack of consent, You have heard evidence about the nature of the sexual relationship between [C] and the Defendant. This is relevant when considering consent. The Prosecution does not say that the Defendant ignored the ordinary meaning of the words “no” or “stop” in respect of his sexual relations with women generally. Instead, when deciding the issue of actual consent, you must consider the nature of the relationship between [C] and the Defendant – was it one of submission or one of “consensual non-consensual” sex?”
“ In respect of count 3, if you accept that the Defendant and [C] had, or may have, agreed previously that only a safe word (pineapples) would indicate lack of consent, or if you accept that the Defendant did, or may have, genuinely and reasonably believed that they had agreed to the use of that safe word to indicate lack of consent, then you must find the Defendant ‘Not Guilty’.”
“6.1 It is agreed that the Defendant has not been convicted of any previous sexual offence. This does not mean that the Defendant could not have committed the offences with which he is now charged, but his good character should be taken into account in his favour in the following way. 6.2 The fact that the Defendant has not committed any sexual offences before may mean that it is less likely that he would have committed the offences with which he is charged in this trial. 6.3 It is for you to decide what importance you attach to that taking everything that you have heard about the Defendant.”