"I have no doubt that this was a desperate act, but also a deliberate act on your part. It enabled you, the adult, to move on largely unscathed from what you had done, unlike [C], still a child, whose consequent disclosures to your parents came not in a measured way, controlled and assisted by her counselling, as she would have liked, but in the aftermath of your apparent suicide attempt, when she was being held to account for apparently selfishly not wanting to visit you in hospital. Then, of course, when your father, appraised by [C's] mother in very general terms of what you had done to her, finally confronted you, he did so gently, worried about your mental health."