"1. I, Terry Andrews, plead guilty to the following counts: a. Controlling and Coercive behaviour in an intimate and family relationship; b. Inflicting Grievous Bodily Harm; c. Assault Occasioning Actual Bodily Harm; d. Destroying Property 2. I wish to do so on the following basis: 3. Controlling and Coercive in an intimate and family relationship- a. I accept that the relationship was very toxic and on a handful of occasions during arguments, that I was verbally abusive towards the complainant and that I engaged in pushing and shoving her. 4. Inflicting Grievous Bodily Harm:- a. On that day the complainant was trying to prevent me from leaving our home and was physically coming at me and that I used excessive force to push her away and she fell and broke her arm. 5. Assault Occasioning Actual Bodily Harm … a. On that day I was in bed asleep when the complainant angrily woke me up and an argument ensued where both of us were verbally abusive. I accept that in the course of the argument while attempting to leave the room, I pushed her into the banister, which broke and thereafter engaged in a physical altercation during which the complainant suffered injuries."
"Your violence towards me became more and more frequent and I found myself having to lie to my family and dearest friends to protect you until the last time, Terry. That was the most violent you had ever been towards me. You made me feel like I was going to die. I was terrified. That is when I finally realised that what we had was not love, it was abuse."