"I'm really disappointed that just happened"
"Goodnight" and apologising for his conduct. She replied that he should not have had sex with her. He said that he knew and he hated himself for doing so. He admitted that what had happened was a huge error and apologised to V. The parties continued to message with the offender expressing regret and remorse for what had happened until28 February 2024 , when V asked the offender to stop contacting her. Asked by the police how she felt V said: "
"We would go to each other with problems or support each other."
"The Defendant will admit that on the17th February 2024 , he raped the complainant at their place of employment after closing hours on the following basis:- i. That the Defendant and Complainant were work colleagues and were also in a relationship ii. During the course of their relationship, they would often flirt with each other during the workplace and there had been occasions where they had sexual intercourse after working hours at the workplace. iii. The Defendant accepts that he had on this occasion, the17th February 2024 , overstepped the mark when he did not heed her request to terminate his sexual activities and continued to have sexual intercourse with her without her consent and accepts that his actions amount to the offence of rape. iv. The Defendant sent text messages amounting to an apology and he regrets not having any regard to her objections to having sexual intercourse with him on that occasion."
"The prosecution are generally content for the defendant to be sentenced on his basis of plea. The only issue relates to the... wording 'in a relationship', 'their relationship'. The prosecution position is that the relationship was casual and might be characterised as friends with benefits as the complainant describes and as the defendant seems to acknowledge."
"... which shows a wholly different side to you than that that was on display on that occasion when you acted in this serious fashion, not only a man of previous good character but exemplary character previously."