"You persuaded yourself that he was fantastically rich based on your internet research and you proceeded to press him for as much as you thought he could give you. You became fixated in the view that you were entitled to financial payback from him due to the time that you had spent together in the relationship. You researched and contacted lawyers to see if you could engage one to bring what was a ludicrous lawsuit against him, and when that came to nothing, as you were told by then you had no claim, you resorted to calculated and cold blackmail and your internet search history revealed that you researched blackmail, extortion and negotiation. You sent him an email accusing him, quite falsely, of all sorts of domestic and sexual abuse in the relationship and then proceeded to threaten him with its release to his family and business contacts and on to social media. You told him that you had contacted the police. That was untrue. In desperate response and fear of the threat he offered you the£20,000 that you had asked for in June, which was a total capitulation. But even this did not prove enough for you, and sensing weakness you pressed your demands to the hilt, demanding£10 million on30th January 2019 , causing him to contact the police."