"I don't feel as though I can trust anyone at the moment. I feel used and that nobody will respect me. I don't recognise myself when I look in the mirror. I feel he has affected my future. I have a poor credit score and believe it will be difficult to get finance. My relationship with my family is extremely strained. My job is in danger due to feigning illnesses and staying away when my injuries were so bad. My mental health is low. I have no energy, I am anxious and depressed due to the whole experience. I have been left disfigured by a scar and this is a constant reminder of this man and what he has done to me."
"I don't like looking at myself in the mirror and seeing the scar does remind me of his behaviour and how he controlled me even now. Due to the finance I took out for Liam I now have a number of marks on my credit history which means I can't get my own credit and have to ask for guarantors and help from my family for things even as simple as a mobile phone contract. Since being able to leave Liam I feel like I have turned a corner, he is still contacting me, but I have been able to open to up to work colleagues and friends who have helped me understand and start to move on. I do still feel affected by Liam and his behaviour, but I no longer feel trapped by him due to their help."
"The nature of the risk to known adults and female members of the public relates to the defendant making contact on dating websites then forming an intimate relationship…..there is a high likelihood of long term emotional and psychological harm caused by domestic abuse, obsessive and fixated thinking contributing to controlling and coercive behaviours with the addition to financial abuse and exploitation, by repeated physical violence, and threats to harm himself. There is also the propensity for the defendant to damage property to resolve the situation."
"This litany of damage to property and assaults upon her must have made it a year of hell as far as she was concerned."
"I have to consider the guidelines. I have no doubt this steps straight into Category 1A with a starting point of two and a half years. Mr Reilly, to whom I hope you will express your profound thanks at the conclusion of this hearing because he has done a great deal on your behalf, points out that the range is one to four years, and undoubtedly these are offences which can cover a multitude of differing offences. Particularly because of your guilty plea I have come to the conclusion that there must be a sentence of imprisonment but it can be suspended in your case."