"When I was a young child, I remember being very happy. I liked being at home and playing outside as I was energetic. After the assaults, I remember turning in on myself. I became quite shy. I had a lot of nightmares and I would wet the bed. I was so unhappy that I would hide in my wardrobe where my mum would find me. This is where I felt safe. After this happened, I felt like I had all this anger in me that I needed to get out. The minute I was old enough to move away, I did. I only came home at holiday time. This has affected my whole family relationship as I never wanted to come back and bump into him. I was around 22 years old when I had my first proper relationship, but we split up because of the sexual issues that I couldn't get over. This still affects my relationship today. In the past two years since reporting, I have felt really stressed at times and guilty at others. I felt like although I was a child, I must have done something wrong as I carry a lot of guilt. I believe this has really ripped the family apart and some days wonder if I shouldn't have spoken out as it would have been my burden to bear and not my family suffering. I will never forget what BM has done to me, but I intend to get counselling when I get home."
"A sentence is unduly lenient, we would hold, where it falls outside the range of sentences which the judge, applying his mind to all of the relevant factors, could reasonably consider appropriate."