"My husband has often spent time in jails, and he was in jail whenever a baby was born to me. When I was living with my in-laws he used to beat me or pick up fights with me but my in-laws used to pacify things. My husband used to break things in the room whenever he became angry, eg. TV, CD, etc, and he used to scream at the top of his voice which made me very frightened. I have spent very difficult life in this country ever since I came here. .... He picks up fights with me and beats me up with his hands or with his shoes about twice a month. My children are very frightened and they cry because he throws thing around -- towards me or in any direction. He never cares where those things will hit me or the children. I get hurt a lot but never knew that I could get help from someone. .... These beatings have been part of my life ever since I came to England. I could never tell anyone because of my honour. He used to beat me whenever I got pregnant. He used to drag me by pulling my hair, so badly that I used to urinate there."
"I love my wife and children and am upset by the whole situation. We have not had an argument as serious as this before."
"Complainants may sometimes retract a true allegation. They may be subjected to pressure, fear of violence or intimidation. Other factors may include the impact upon children, embarrassment, a fear of going to court, family or community pressure, which may stem from the immediate and extended family, the wider community, and from cultural traditions."
"The mere fact that you have them in written form in front of you, there is no way of avoiding you having them, as you can appreciate, it is not the case that because you have got them in written form they are somehow worth more than evidence from the witness box, so do not place undue weight on that as against any other evidence in the case."