"1. The defendant accepts that he caused the injury to David Aspinall's hand with a kitchen knife, after entering the property as a trespasser. Although there is no medical evidence or photographs of the injury he accepts that this injury is capable of being GBH. 2. He attended the flat in Frodsham in a very emotional state, having finally realised that there was to be no reconciliation with his wife, and that he had been deceived about the nature of the relationship with Mr Aspinall. 3. He entered the bedroom with the knife and woke the couple up. He does not know how he caused the injury to Mr Aspinall's hand, but accepts that his actions were reckless in that situation, and suggests that the injury was caused as Mr Aspinall put his hand out to protect himself. He denies actually trying to stab Mr Aspinall with the knife but accepts that this must have been a very frightening situation for him."
"2.6. In my view this offence sits within the context of power and control in that Mr Graham was unable to accept that his marriage was over and wanted to exact his revenge. He was clearly disinhibited by alcohol at the time and therefore acted out his feelings. He was at a loss to explain why he had taken a copy of the key, but in my view, this reflects premeditation to commit this offence. He tells me that he had no intention to hurt either of the victims and rather it was his intention to self-harm in front of them (which again would reflect power and control) as a way of demonstrating how he felt. 2.7. Mr Graham is deeply remorseful about his behaviour and has expressed his willingness to pay compensation to the victims. He was able to express empathy to the fact that they have been traumatised by his behaviour and that his relationship with his ex-wife has irretrievably broken down."
"You're a man of exemplary character, not just from what people have said about your army service which obviously has been considerable, but it goes beyond that because it shows the nature of the person as well and it's very rare that a court will come across references where people speak of somebody in such terms . . . "