"My self-esteem and confidence wasn't great anyway. It's now rock bottom as at the time of the crime Kevin hurled verbal abuse at me which has made me feel totally worthless."
"15. At no time has this defendant attempted to minimise, deny or shift responsibility for his actions. He is able to calculate the long-term effects on his victim and has spent time examining his behaviour."
"In your written basis of plea you admit that the oral rape was accompanied by violence in that you struck your victim with your open hand. You accept causing her injuries and included amongst those injuries was damage to the ligaments of her wrist. It is of note that you are about 6 ft 2 in; she, your former partner, was 5 ft 3 in. I take into account in your favour the fact that you have never before been before the courts. It is to your credit that you accept responsibility for this dreadful offence. There are many aggravating features about the case: your young child was in the home when the offence took place; you had been drinking heavily; and it is plain from the evidence that you showed your partner no compassion, no humanity at all. You humiliated her, terrorised her and raped her, and the violence to which you subjected her was over and above that necessary to commit the offence of rape. You were a powerful man; she was a slight woman quite unable to do anything to protect herself from the degrading and violent conduct towards her."