“Rod [the appellant] wanted me to tell her that we had a relationship. I remember going into the kitchen … and trying to tell her and then I couldn’t. So I ran upstairs crying and I think then Rod must have told her. All I said was: “There’s something going on”, that was all the words I could get out, and my mum came up to me and she said: “What?”
“Do you love him?” and I said: “Yes”, she says: “Well, as long as you’re happy, I’m happy” and that was how it went.”
“… You said that you said to your mum, in answer to a question, yes, you loved him, is that right, you did say that? A: Yes. Q. And was that true? A. Yes, in a way, not sexually but I did love him … Q. Can you explain what you mean? A. He protected me. I felt protected. I felt safe. I never wanted anything sexual to happen.”
“I was just scared. Q. You were just scared. A. Yes. Q. Scared of Rod? A. Scared of what he might do. Q. Scared of what he might do. And so the whole time, until aged 24 you were living under his domination? A. Yes. Q. Unwillingly? A. Yes. Q. Unhappily? A. Yes.”
“It was equal partnership. She was with me, well she was with me when she wanted to be with me.”
“Did she ever show any disinclination at all to engage in sex with you? A. Not in the slightest.”