"I am afraid I am not particularly sympathetic to members of your family who, for what appear to be religious reasons, seem to have taken it upon themselves to put distance between you and them to ostracise you in a way which I find wholly unchristian, although that is not the religion in the dock on this particular occasion. However, it is disgraceful that members of the family should behave like that in a situation such as this. In any event, there will be financial orders."