"The offender took BS's hand and placed it over his crotch area under his boxer shorts and onto his penis. BS pretended not to be awake. The offender then placed his hand under BS's boxer shorts and touched his penis for a while. BS turned over onto his front and took his hand away from the offender's crotch. The offender again put his hand on BS's penis and he then pulled BS's boxer shorts down to his knees. The offender started to rub BS's bottom, opening and closing his buttocks with his hands. BS could then feel that something was inserted into his bottom, but he had no idea what it was, it went in quite far and was then removed. The offender then touched BS's penis again, making it erect, before he pressed his own buttocks against BS's penis for some time. When the offender moved his position BS got up saying he needed a drink"
"The problem is with the younger boy [C]. [C] is still at home, [C] being the contact with [BS] in the first place. [C] lives at home full-time. The relationship with their mother is not such that they can go and live with her in any event. She runs a bed and breakfast and has a fairly full clientele list at any given time so there is not space for [C] to go and live with his mother. He sleeps in a store-room as and when he does go and visit her but there certainly is not permanent accommodation for [C]. He is still at college ..."
"... any period of custody that you impose today will wreak havoc in the lives certainly of [C], to a slightly lesser extent [J] [another brother] and then the parents, so the risk is that there will be more victims to what has already been a most unfortunate incident, and it would be very regrettable that [C's] career could not progress to fruition ... "
"Miss Butler has eloquently told me about the effect that any sentence of imprisonment of any length would have on your sons, and on your father in particular, and I have read their heartrending letters to me and they reveal the good side of you."
"I understand that it was suggested to the Court that I have refused to house my son [C]. I would like to make it clear that this is not the case. [C] who is now 16 years has always had a room at my home which he occupies for most of the week. As previously stated he does still stay at his father's address in Thame at weekends and occasionally during the week. [C] attends [the name of the college]. I pay for all his college costs including transportation. I take him from my home most mornings to Thame where he gets the college minibus and in the evening I collect him from his father's house and bring him home. I should add that I receive all the child benefit and Child Tax Credit relating to [C]."
"As regards sexual offending there may be a higher risk, although Mr Webb is adamant that he will never allow himself to be in a situation where such behaviour could occur. He does however still struggle with self awareness, understanding why he offended, and has a limited acceptance and understanding of the victim's perspective. Self knowledge and victim awareness are key areas which impact on behaviour change."
"However, it is clearly undesirable for many reasons that courts should pass sentences that are out of line with proper sentencing practice. To do so can only cause public concern and affect the confidence of the public in the system. It runs the risk that people may feel that sexual offenders have not received proper punishment thereby increasing the danger that extra-judicial punishment may be meted out. An inadequate sentence frequently adds to the anguish of the victim, who feels that society has not recognised his or her suffering, particularly when they have had to steel themselves to speak of offending against them that they might have chosen not to rehearse publicly. Nor is such a sentence any kindness to an offender, who will in all probability be subjected to a reference to this court with the unnecessary anguish of having to start the sentencing process all over again."
"In our judgment, the circumstances of these offences were of a gravity which required the imposition of a prison sentence in the court below of at least 3 years' imprisonment in total. The gravity lay not so much in the nature of the sexual activity in itself but in the grooming of this vulnerable and handicapped boy, over a period of time and the giving of money and other gifts."