‘44. The judge then determined future arrangements for the children which provided for them to spend significant time with all three adults, albeit that their primary base was to be with MP. 45. With respect to parental responsibility, the judge expressly declined to make an order engaging s 12(2) or exercise powers under s 12(2A), attributing parental responsibility to one or both of TP1 and TP2 under a child arrangements order. Instead, partly to afford clarity for the three adults as to the ground rules (my phrase) for parenting from the time of the hearing going forward, the judge provided that MP should be free to make all parental decisions regarding P other than in relation to four specified areas of high-level decision making (for example change of school or leaving the jurisdiction). Both TP1 and TP2 were, however, to be empowered to do what is reasonable for the care of either child when in their care under CA 1989, s 3(5).’
‘Ground 5 The court failed to adequately balance the risk posed by F1 of removing the children from F2’s care in June 2024. Ground 6 The court failed to analyse properly, if at all, the impact on Child 1 of the child arrangements and how such arrangements will psychologically affect [their] understanding of [their] role within her family.’
‘94. M argues that F1’s actions in taking both children to his home in Y County in 2024 demonstrate a similar lack of respect for her parental responsibility. It is correct that F1 acted in breach of the interim contact order, not only removing the children from a party but taking them to stay with him in Y County without M’s consent. F1’s explanation is that the children were adamant that they wanted to stay with him and would not get out of the car; that account is supported by that of family members, but even assuming that to be the case, F1 could and should have managed their expectations better (and ensured that they did not get into the car in the first place.) However, I bear in mind that this incident took place after a sustained period when F1’s contact with his [child] had been severely restricted without justification, and that, presumably as a result, both children were missing him and making it clear that they wanted to see more of him. Going forwards, if an arrangement is in place that better meets the children’s needs, I think it less likely that F1 will seek to take matters into his own hands in this way.’
‘Grounds 5 and 6 are a challenge to the decisions as to welfare/child arrangements. The events of June 2024, and my view of those events, are dealt with at para [94] of the judgment where I explained why I consider that the risk of a similar episode will be reduced in future. As to [the child]’s understanding of [their] family relationships, and the relevance of this issue to the child arrangements, my thinking is set out at paras [83-88], [93], [96-98] and [118-120]. Those passages make it clear, in my view, that [the child]’s understanding of [their] family relationships was a key welfare issue that carried significant weight in my decision about [their] living arrangements.’
‘There may therefore need to be a short transitional period when these arrangements are put in place. I hope the parties can agree a stepped arrangement which builds up to the above pattern by (at the latest) the end of the summer term. If they cannot I will determine this issue on the papers.’
‘[The child]’s understanding of her family relationships was a key welfare issue that carried significant weight in my decision about her living arrangements.’
‘The first appellant submits that there remain a number of welfare matters which require re-consideration; these arising not only from the appeal for which permission was granted, but also now in light of the appellate courts’ decisions in relation to s 4 and the Declaration of Parentage. It is submitted that there exists now a confusing situation from the existence of TP2’s [sic] name on child one’s birth certificate and the lack of clarity around who [their] father in fact and law is.’