“If the father is unable to collect the children from school/nursery, he shall contact the mother offering that she collect the children instead and retain them thereafter until the father is able to collect them from her home. In the event that the mother is unable to collect and/or retain the children beyond 3.30pm, the father shall make his own childcare arrangements.”
“A, B and C are in need of stability at this juncture in their young lives. Given the complexity of their parents’ conflict, characterised by their respective expression of anxiety about their futures with their children creating a sense of instability, changing their worlds by moving them from their current homes, schools and daily routines will be destabilising for them.”
“42. [Ms X] had no doubt that the mother was a capable parent. She did however think that the mother was an intense and an anxious parent. [Ms X] also raised in her oral evidence a concern that there was a risk that unconsciously the mother might act so as to diminish the father’s role with the children. She used the word ‘alienation’. [The mother’s counsel] says that word is misused by [Ms X], and it is clearly a heavily loaded word, so I shall not use it here but it is necessary for me to consider the risk that unconsciously the mother might diminish the father’s role. 43. I have absolutely no doubt but that the mother loves each of her children keenly. I have no doubt that she genuinely thinks that each of the children is loved by the father and that they love the father. Further I have no doubt that she does consciously acknowledge the importance of the father to the children. Where I think [Ms X]’s observation has force is that the mother does put problems in the children’s behaviour down to wrong day-to-day parenting by the father. I reach this conclusion having listened to her cross examination by Ms Fottrell on complaints and comments made by her of the father over the course of these proceedings. There may of course be occasions when the mother is right, but I do find that her general approach is to assume she is right, that he is wrong, and the problem would disappear if only the court would have (as she believes it should have done) entrusted her with the primary care of the children.”
“I am mindful that the children’s voices are missing from these proceedings and the Court may have a view on the need for these to be sought. I have considered this, on balance with the issues in question in these proceedings, and at this time do not advise that a further welfare assessment is proportionate to the need for further professional intervention in their lives.”
“The Court may wish to clarify how [the father’s] behaviour has worsened towards [the mother] prior to considering its next directions. However, with the appropriate safeguards in place, it may be possible for the Court to resolve this matter without the need for a Section 7 report.”
“The mother’s case was that there are new things known about the children and that their wishes and feelings have not been ascertained and this should be done. The mother also makes many complaints about the father and his parenting all of which, she says, could be solved if the children were in her care as the primary care giver. She complains, among other things, that he leaves too much of the parenting of the girls to nannies. She complains that he has not ensured that medication… is properly applied. B had a viral infection in her genital area and it is the mother’s case that this was not treated properly with medication and appropriate medical creams and that it did not clear up as it should have done. She blames this on the father’s neglectful parenting and that he delegated the application of medication to nannies who did not do so correctly.”
“After receipt of each safeguarding letter, the mother chose to contact the author to mention more complaints or concerns about the father’s deficient care of the children. This form of additional complaint is a feature of the way that this mother behaves. It is one of the reasons why the father seeks a s 91(14) order. There is a complaint about the father having thrown water over A one morning to wake her up. This complaint has been accepted to an extent by the father. He says it has been exaggerated and the water was not a cupful, but some drops. The mother’s statement within these applications is a litany of complaints about the father and not each and every one has been covered in this judgment. The mother does not accept what she is told by professionals and seeks to add to complaints. This is similar to the mother not accepting the decisions of two different judges who heard evidence and both came to the same conclusion about the children benefiting from spending equal time with each parent.”
“It is noted that the mother, on receipt of the draft report on C from Dr A [the psychologist who had diagnosed C’s condition], sent correspondence asking Dr A to include in the report a statement that C is suffering because she is away from the mother. Dr A did not adopt the mother’s suggestion and emphasised the importance of staying neutral in these proceedings. Here is another example of this mother trying to assert and impose her view on professionals. It is a consistent trait.”
“It is a theme of the mother’s complaint and the mother’s way of consistently blaming the father for any difficulties attaching to the children that the father is delegating too much care for the children to the nannies. This includes the father allowing a nanny to collect the children from school when she relies on a recital in the order from 2019 to the effect that if the father is unable to collect the children from school it should be the mother who undertakes this task and not a nanny. As this was the order which I approved after hearing evidence and giving a judgment in 2019 I am in a good position to say that the mother has been unrealistic about how it should be used. Disallowing the nannies to undertake collection duties from school when the children are spending time with their father was not the intention of the recital. Nevertheless the mother roundly accuses the father of breaching the order by so doing. The second point of significant concern was that the mother contacted Ofsted about an issue she had with one of the nannies. This resulted in a letter from Ofsted to the nanny which can only have caused considerable concern for this nanny.”
“This mother has never accepted the decision that the children should spend equal time with both of their parents. This was the decision that I made in 2019. In 2021 Mr Recorder Trowell heard the application – including an application to relocate with the girls to Ireland. He maintained the child arrangements that they should spend equal time with each parent. Two ISWs have spent time considering this case and five days of court time have been used to consider the same issues. A total of three judgments have been contained in the bundle going over these issues as they presented in 2019 and 2021.”
“These children are aged between 5 and 10. They are currently spending equal time with each parent. Their wishes and feelings have been ascertained already within these proceedings on two occasions. In my judgment there is no further assessment to be carried out and to investigate matters again could be harmful for them. It is inconceivable that any social worker is going to try to find out if they would prefer a different division of time as this is an adult decision or, in lieu of parents agreeing, a decision of the court.”
“Two experienced ISWs have reported on these children in the last four years. Inevitably, such reporting is intrusive into the girls’ lives. In my judgment no further report is necessary and I am not going to order one.”
“The issue before the court is the amount of time the children should spend with each parent. In my judgment the applications made by the mother have gone far enough. She is attempting to re-litigate matters that have been decided (res judicata) and not overturned on appeal. This is not an appropriate use of family funds and continuing such litigation is not a proportionate use of the court’s time.”
“unfortunately, the mother in this case has been carrying out such a campaign which can be seen by her statement prepared for this hearing as well as the highlighted attempts she has made to get professionals to add to their views that the children’s welfare would be better served if they spent more time with their mother. She sets out a catalogue of complaints about the father’s parenting and his use of nannies. Her tone creates the impression that her children are being harmed almost daily when that is not the position that can be seen from the children’s school reports. All of this is designed and aimed in order for her to argue that the children should spend the majority of their time with her and see their father for alternate weekends with one sleepover in the intervening week. Her complaints are clear examples of evidence gathering as was her effort to persuade Dr A to amend his report to suggest that the reason for C’s behaviour was all about the separation from her mother. This was not his / her view and Dr A was at pains to remain neutral.”
“I am entirely satisfied that this is one of those unusual cases where it would be right to impose a s 91(14) order in order to give the children a break from litigation.”
“The issue raised is merely another example of an issue where the mother claims there is a concern and the father produces a school report to refute it. DDJ O’Leary already had several such examples: another one would have been unlikely to change anything.”
“If there had been no balancing positive information before the court then it may well have been that the learned judge was over-robust in dismissing the application without seeking further investigation of the issues raised by the mother. But taken in the round, with the positive evidence considered alongside the mother’s concerns, it appears to me that there was both evidence and reason for the learned judge to believe that the situation was not as the mother presented it. The learned judge at first instance had read all of the evidence and was well aware of the father’s balancing evidence. In those circumstances, and bearing in mind her very wide case management powers (including her power under PFR 22(1) to control evidence) and her obligations under the overriding objective, I cannot say she was wrong to come to the view that there had not been a material change of circumstances, and I cannot say she was wrong to refuse a s7 report. I make it plain that in coming to that conclusion I have considered the individual assertions made by the mother, but also as a separate exercise I have considered whether, taken together, the totality of them make a significant change. They do not. The totality of the positive evidence counteracts [the] totality of the negative.”
“over 37 paragraphs, the majority of them focus on things she says the father has done wrong. It is entirely fair to say her evidence is a litany of complaints about the father.”
“There are other so-called “findings” which the mother seeks to challenge. I have considered them all, but will not in this judgment attempt to go through them all. There is, however, a procedural point which I must deal with, and that is the point made by the mother that these “findings” should never have been made at all in circumstances where the mother was not on notice of them, and had no opportunity to bring evidence against them and to cross-examine on the evidence which was relied on. I do not accept that argument from the mother. These observations made by DDJ O’Leary are not “findings” in the formal sense. It is the role, and indeed the duty, of the judge to come to a view about the character of a case and the character of a witness, and to express those views. Expressing those views does not amount to making formal “findings”
“This was the judicial view, unchallenged at the time, which formed the backdrop against which DDJ O’Leary made her own observations. DDJ O’Leary was entitled to rely on that. Having looked at the mother’s individual complaints in relation to this appeal, three of which I have set out in detail above, I consider that there was evidence and information to support DDJ O’Leary’s observations. I further consider that it would have been disproportionate and not in keeping with the overriding objective for further evidence to be called before the judge was permitted to express the views she did.”
“However, in my view she had cause to do this. She was not dealing with a blank canvas. She had dealt with the case fully in 2019 and she had read the full judgment from the case in 2021. She was aware of the findings about the mother which I have referred to in this judgment, and her propensity to seek to influence professionals. She knew that many complaints about the father had emanated from the mother, as I have set out above. She had also come to a view about the mother seeking to portray the children as being harmed when the school reports provided evidence that they were not being harmed. In my view the learned judge was entitled to come to these views on the basis of previous findings and the existing evidence. She may have been mistaken as to the mother making a particular complaint to the local authority but that does not undermine her general approach.”
“In my view the learned judge stayed on the right side of the line in this case, by applying the overriding objective, considering issues of proportionality, controlling the evidence as she saw fit, and making the decision that she did in a case which she considered, rightly, to be res judicata.”
“A fact-finding hearing is not free-standing litigation. It always takes place within proceedings to protect a child from abuse or regarding the child’s future welfare. It is not to be allowed to become an opportunity for the parties to air their grievances. Nor is it a chance for parents to seek the court’s validation of their perception of what went wrong in their relationship. If fact-finding is to be justified in the first place or continued thereafter, the court must be able to identify how any alleged abusive behaviour is, or may be, relevant to the determination of the issues between the parties as to the future arrangements for the children.”
“where there has been a contested hearing relatively recently at which the issues have been properly and fully ventilated … if a parent then returns to court and seeks to reopen the issue, then it is likely that a court will take the view that there should be no further extensive investigation, unless there has been a significant or material change in circumstances.”
“[The subsection] leaves a discretion to the court to determine the circumstances in which an order should be made. These circumstances may be many and varied. They include circumstances where an application would put the child concerned, or another individual, at risk of harm … such as psychological or emotional harm. The welfare of the child is paramount.”
“the weight of Court of Appeal authority is against the existence of any strict rule of issue estoppel which is binding upon any of the parties in children’s cases.”
“At the same time, the court undoubtedly has a discretion as to how the inquiry before it is to be conducted. This means it may on occasion decline to allow a full hearing of the evidence on certain matters even if the strict rules of issue estoppel would not cover them.”