“37. Multiple and complex allegations are maintained between parties regarding both abusive behaviour toward the other and of both towards the children. The children make allegations that [the father] has locked them in their rooms, hit them with items such as coat hangers and shoes and is critical of their clothing. They report feeling scared due to incidents and both G and F wish their father to be calmer and stop being angry. They all remember an incident where they feel their father tried to hurt himself with scissors/knife and by banging his head on a wall. E remembers her parents arguing every day and has nightmares. Both E and F allege they witnessed their father damaging their mother’s car from the window of the family home. None of the children reports any concerns in relation to their mother’s care. All of the children have both negative and positive memories of their father but they share that they do not feel safe in his care and believe he has difficulties managing his anger. 38. “[The father] has admitted to throwing a phone in the presence of the children and damaging a laptop. He felt that the children would not have noticed that he had damaged the laptop and this would not have affected them. [The father] states he is currently two sessions in to the Managing Strong Emotions” course which he believes he started in around January 2023. He states the delay is due to ‘them being really busy’. [The father] does not feel he has difficulties managing his emotions or anger. He stated he ‘would do anything to spend time’ with his children. I am concerned that, should the wider allegations being made by [the mother] and the children regarding his behaviour be true, [the father] lacks insight into his own behaviour and is unlikely to benefit from such a course, in addition to the significant length of time that this course is currently taking. My understanding is that the maximum length for such a course is 8 sessions of 2 hours each. [The father’s] rate of progress regarding this is therefore a concern as it may be an indication of a lack of commitment and/or prioritising this to make positive changes in risk for his children.”
“Mother shall continue to make the children available to spend time with the father on a supported basis at the contact centre for 2 hours each fortnight. This shall mean that the requirement to provide contact notes and for full supervision is no longer necessary, however a third party shall be present throughout to support contact.”
“I hope you a good Umrah and all the best and also give my forgiveness to you for anything that I might have done wrong to you Allah is witness I didn’t mean any harm to you. I want all the bad things stay in the past and us opening new page in our relationship for the sake of our children, I wish all the best in your life”
“The children’s wishes and feelings remain clear regarding how they would want time with their father to look. They were clear that their experiences with their father at contact since May 2023 to present have been positive in the main, but they do not want overnight stays with [him] and want to continue to see him on a fortnightly basis in the community, particularly to be able to do a wider variety of activities with him. Positively, all the children stated they would feel comfortable spending time with him unsupervised. The children’s reasons for not wanting to have overnight contact with their father differ …. Underpinning this subconsciously is also, in my view, likely to be linked to their experiences when living with their father in relation to allegations of domestic abuse and abusive parenting.”
“25. The extent to which it is safe and in the children’s best interests for contact to progress in line with their wishes and feelings remains dependent upon the findings made in relation to both parties. This will shed light on the dynamics affecting the children’s wishes and feelings, particularly regarding their reluctance to spend time with their father overnight at his home and any risk of ongoing coercive control. 26. There are no changes to recommendations at this stage as a finding of fact has not yet taken place …. 28. I recommend contact continues to be supervised in the community in the interim as per initial recommendations ….”
“The issues had narrowed. The father no longer seeks overnight ‘time with’ arrangements and the children are reported by the Cafcass officer as desiring unsupervised time with their father, although they do not wish to stay overnight. The mother continues to press for ‘time with’ arrangements to be supervised. The Cafcass officer continues to recommend supervised arrangements in the absence of a fact-finding investigation.”
“You have agreed an adjournment. The father is unrepresented however. I have not seen the grounds of appeal. However, as I understand it the appeal is based, essentially, on the assertions that (i) I should not have adjourned for the purposes of obtaining a QLR for the respondent; and, (ii) I was wrong to order interim “time with” arrangements extending beyond supervision/support. If the appeal were to succeed on (i) then it would seem unfortunate that the consequence is still further delay when the CA will in fact be telling me to get on with it. If the appeal succeeds on (ii) then there will be a further reason to consider interim arrangements at an early stage.”
“a satisfactory alternative to cross-examination in person does not include the court itself conducting the cross-examination on behalf of a party”
“23. The principal options facing a court at that stage are likely to be: a) A further adjournment in the hope that a QLR may be found; b) An adjournment to allow one or both parties to engage their own advocate; c) Reviewing the need for the vulnerable party to give oral evidence and be cross-examined. This will include reviewing the need for there to be a fact-finding hearing in the proceedings; d) Considering any other alternative means of avoiding in person cross-examination between the relevant parties; e) The court itself taking on the task of asking questions in place of the in person party. This is not an exhaustive list. The circumstances in each case will differ and, if other options are available, they should be considered. Equally, depending on the local circumstances, and those of the parties, different options will no doubt be chosen on a case-by-case basis. It does not follow that, if no QLR is available, the court is automatically required to conduct the questioning itself. It is important that all possible alternative options are reviewed at that point in the proceedings. 24. When considering the options, and whether the court should take on the questioning, the court will take account ofPD3AB paragraph 5.3 which states that: 'a satisfactory alternative to cross-examination in person does not include the court itself conducting the cross-examination on behalf of a party'. The validity of that statement is unlikely to be controversial in the eyes of judges and magistrates. Indeed, the negative aspects of questioning by the court must have been prominent in the thinking in Parliament when the QLR process was brought into law by the 2021 Act. At a time when it was still comparatively rare for litigants to act in person in Family cases, Roderic Wood J contemplated the option of the judge asking questions on behalf of an unrepresented party and expressed 'a profound sense of unease at the thought' [H v L and R[2006] EWHC 3099 (Fam) ;[2007] 2 FLR 162 ]. 25.PD3AB , paragraph 5.3 is not, however, black-letter law. The fact that the PD does not include questioning by the court as a satisfactory alternative, does not, as a matter of law, prevent the court undertaking the task if it considers that, in the interests of justice, it must nevertheless do so. When a QLR is appointed by the court the focus is on whether it is 'necessary in the interests of justice' to do so [s 31W(5)]. The need for the court to deal 'justly' with cases is not, of course, confined simply to the need to act in the interests of justice when appointing a QLR; it is a requirement that pervades every step that the court may take throughout any proceedings in order to meet the 'overriding objective' of the FPR 2010 ….”
“23. All of this serves in my judgment to emphasise the need for proper cross-examination by an advocate on his behalf. I reach the conclusion that justice cannot be done in any other way, and there are no alternative means by which cross-examination might be undertaken, or by which the evidence might be obtained. 24. It follows in fact that I do not believe in the current circumstances that I can conduct a fair trial. An adjournment there will have to be. I am slightly reassured by the fact that I cannot conclude that all hope of a QLR has gone in this case, notwithstanding the well-known difficulties within the system…. 25. But for all those reasons, in a case which I can see might conceivably go further, I have to accede to the application to adjourn, despite the disappointment, the delay and the obvious difficulties which it causes….”
“Domestic abuse is harmful to children, and/or puts children at risk of harm, including where they are victims of domestic abuse for example by witnessing one of their parents being violent or abusive to the other parent, or living in a home in which domestic abuse is perpetrated (even if the child is too young to be conscious of the behaviour). Children may suffer direct physical, psychological and/or emotional harm from living with and being victims of domestic abuse, and may also suffer harm indirectly where the domestic abuse impairs the parenting capacity of either or both of their parents.”
“Counsel: Paragraph 25, Ms Alexander is very clear the extent to which it is safe and in the children's best interests for contact to progress in line with their wishes and feelings, which is that they have said that they would not mind unsupervised contact, will be dependent on the findings, so – Judge: But I do not necessarily accept that, is the point I am putting to you. Counsel: Well, if the court does not accept -- Judge: CAFCASS are very risk averse these days -- Counsel: Yes. Judge: -- in this situation. Counsel: Well, if the court takes that view about the recommendations, I would submit that it needs to have [the Cafcass officer] in court here to answer to her recommendations before it makes such a drastic decision, which in all senses of the word is pre-determining the final issue, which the father is asking the court to determine. It is not in a position to do that now. On an interim basis, while the court has already determined that a fact finding is necessary, it cannot go on to -- Judge: Well, it is obviously necessary on the FGM. In the light of [the father’s] concession, I am not at all sure that still applies to child arrangements.”
“Acknowledging the force that applies toPractice Direction 12J and the significance attached to allegations of domestic abuse, both in terms of their effects on the children, and also in this case on the children's mother, I find myself unconvinced by Ms Gaunt's argument. This case has been going on now since 2022. The caution which different judges have exercised over time is evident from the fact that the father was restricted to video contact I think from October of 2022, but began supervised time with the children in May of 2023, that is to say almost ten months ago now.”
“34. The point is the testing-out which would have been undertaken following findings, even if they were made in my judgment to the hilt of the mother's case, has already occurred. I have seen the contact notes. I moved matters to what was supposed to be supported contact in October. It now happens beyond the contact centre, although I think someone is always still present. But that has gone well. 35. I have also obtained an addendum report from Cafcass. The contents are of some significance. Ms Gaunt emphasises in her submissions the fact that nothing has changed in the Cafcass recommendations. [The Cafcass officer] says this [in paragraph 25 of her report, quoted above]: ‘The extent to which it is safe and in the children's best interests for contact to progress in line with their wishes and feelings remains dependent upon the findings made in relation to both parties’. I am not at all sure that statement is correct.”
“40. Applying the welfare checklist, it seems to me that the time has come, on any view of the facts, to move to unsupervised time with the children for the father. That is what they want, that is what they need. I am satisfied they will not come to harm. It creates no unmanageable risk for the children. The father has improved, in terms of his own capabilities, how he handles this. I will be clear in the order that he is in no way to denigrate the children's mother, he is not to ask about the past, he is not to ask about Female Genital Mutilation. 41. I think there is an additional advantage to unsupervised time, and that is that one benefit of the adjournment which I have ordered is that it can be tested out under the umbrella of existing court proceedings.”
“On the contrary, part of my rationale was that the question of unsupervised contact could be tested out under the umbrella of court proceedings, which means that there is no final determination at all.”
“that is not right, because my approach was to assume the facts in favour of the mother, and to determine that, even if those aspects of domestic abuse which the mother alleged were correct, it did not mean that the contact should be unsupervised [sic – he must have meant ‘supervised’].”