“And is it fair to say that having never had any social service involvement in your life prior to that, whether in respect of yourself or in respect of your own children, this was all pretty much very new to you. Is that fair?”
“…from the time she was aged about nine until she was around fifteen, she and her (eight) siblings were looked after children by the local authority….as children she remembers that the sibling group were in and out of care of the local authority. They were mainly cared for in children’s homes as they were a big sibling group and could not be found foster placement accommodation together….the children were accepting of the situation and “that’s how their life was”….their mother did not care about them and put her own needs above those of her children….their home was always dirty and the children had no clothes to wear and went to school in rags….there was never any food at home and it was cold but the children always wanted to be at home together….her mother’s behaviours continued and the children were always returned to their parents and then went back into care….”
“In my overall analysis of the parent’s relationship, I have held in mind relevant background factors such as the parties very different upbringing – the father having had the benefit of a stable childhood surrounded by a robust and supportive family network with enduring relationships with immediate and wider family. The mother’s contrasting childhood experiences have left her vulnerable, isolated, lacking in role models and with poor experiences in her upbringing”