“81. Most significantly, there is a very significant difference between the mother caring for one child and the complexities of caring for three very small children and for B, as a very vulnerable young person which would need to be very carefully, gradually and comprehensively tested before there could be real confidence in the likely success of rehabilitation and the sustainability of arrangements. 82. Any reintroduction of contact between the mother and the boys is likely to be extremely confusing and unsettling for them, undermine their trust in their carers and especially their social workers. It is highly likely to impact on their emotional regulation and behaviour at home with their carers and in school. They would need careful preparation to understand why they do not have new carers and are going to spend time with people they have already said goodbye to. They would need a high level of direct work with their social worker to understand each stage of the plan. They would need a high level of therapeutic care-giving to help them adapt to sharing their primary carer (their mother)’s attention.”
“9. … I must also recognise that further delay for the boys in itself threatens their welfare interests and, in this case, may well make more difficult or even rule out the prospect of adoption in future. Not least in this respect is the fact that the local authority would, next year, if the mother did not succeed in her proposal, have to re-apply for placement orders. The mother’s proposal is not an easy one and it has a considerable downside.”
“10. In the case of G there must be an assessment of current risk. The assessment of risk to the boys involves looking to the future. That said, there is no denying that there is a considerable amount of overlap. My views on the boys must be heavily influenced by my views on G - and my view of the future by the present. This is because both assessments must be based on the facts as I find them to be and in particular the question whether the mother has ended her relationships with the fathers as well as changed her lifestyle, or whether she has (as the guardian contends may be the case) either pulled the wool over the eyes of professionals or remains too vulnerable to a return to old ways.”
“23. G is bonded to her mother and her inner feelings, although they cannot be expressed in words, would obviously be for this bond to continue. G’s physical care and emotional needs are being met and it seems will continue to be met. The only source of potential harm for her lies in her mother’s lifestyle and in particular the risks from relationships with volatile men. I believe the mother remains attracted to her previous lifestyle and there is a real possibility that she will return to it. Shoplifting remains a particular risk. I believe that the risk from the fathers has receded, but it is highly likely that the mother will form a new relationship and the past gives no reassurance that the individual with whom she forms that relationship will be risk-free. I repeat, however, that there is no indication that either father (or any other man in the mother’s life) would deliberately harm a child. I find this an important qualification to the level of harm to which any child in the mother’s care would currently be exposed. The mother’s character and abilities are obviously in play but are tied up with the risk of harm. The well-known and oft-cited dictum of Hedley J is relevant here: nothing in this judgment should be taken as endorsing either her obvious habit of shoplifting or her conduct of relationships, but the focus has to be on the harm to which she is likely to expose her children. That in my judgment is now limited. 24. In my judgment, any balance of these factors produces the conclusion that G must remain in her mother’s care. A supervision order is, in my judgment, appropriate. I believe the local authority will experience difficulty in their conduct of that order. It will be difficult to advise, assist and befriend the mother. She does not believe she needs such advice and assistance. It is not, in my judgment, in her nature to believe this. She nevertheless does need it. One obvious piece of advice is that her shoplifting, if it continues, may land her in prison - perhaps not for so long that the care of G cannot be temporarily accommodated within the family or even beyond, but prison nevertheless. A second piece of advice would be to make an honest appraisal of her own character and stop pretending to be purely a victim. It will not be easy either for the mother or for the local authority. I do not believe the mother will be honest with the local authority. They will continue to have concerns. I can easily foresee an application to extend the life of the supervision order. Nevertheless, the circumstances are not such as require or justify a care order, still less an adoption care plan. I prefer the reasoning of the local authority to that of the guardian. In cross-examination and in submissions counsel put it simply: the mother has cared well for her daughter; she will not abuse her; she has addressed her substance abuse issues; the remaining concerns cannot justify removal. I agree.”
“25. For me, the same considerations cause me to conclude that the application to revoke the placement orders in respect of the boys must succeed. I recognise that the boys are in a different position. They have been in foster care for a long time. Plans to adopt them were put on hold by the local authority in July 2022 in the face of apparent improvements in the mother. The local authority initiated further assessment. It was only when that assessment was negative in December 2022 that the local authority proceeded down the adoption road. 26. … The boys have as yet had no meeting with the proposed adoptive parents but have not seen their natural parents for 5 months. Their position, I recognise, is therefore very different from that of G. 27. 1 must also recognise that the mother’s case is not for a return to her care at the present time. Nor can she point to a fixed point in the future when they will move — whether by date, event, or extent of change in her. The most she can do is to suggest that by around Christmas 2023 she will have proved herself. 28. These then, together with the whole picture described above in respect of G, are the considerations to which the welfare checklist within the 2002 Act must be applied. 29. The boys’ welfare throughout life. This would be served equally by a successful return to their mother’s care as well as by a successful adoption. Each would provide them with a family environment as children and family connections as adults. For them to remain in foster care would limit their lifetime opportunities. They would have to move to long-term foster carers in any event. Further moves are possible. Family connections (insofar as they were ever truly ‘family’) might well cease at 18. 30. Wishes and Feelings. An important point is that, now, the boys have been left in limbo for the last 5 months. Nevertheless, they probably retain an important and good relationship with their mother. They have no relationship with adopters. The guardian puts it thus (paragraph 76): “on balance, we would like to be able to live with our birth family if there was real confidence that we would be safe, well-cared for and protected from harm.”